to get her back?? What do i do

August 22, 2008

from 24yrs old from England my girlfriend < 26yrs old should know better

hey been with my girl over 3 months everything was great until her mum had a accident and had to go to hospital, so i let my girlfriend deal with it and gave her a week for space so she could spend time and look after her mum i was supportive and everything..... txting and calling asking if she needed help etc

then NEXT thing i no shes booked a holiday to go to cyprus in europe and she had no intention of telling me! we was meant to be going together but because her mum had the accident with her leg she said we would have to go in a couple of months until her mum got better! i was like ok kool! but 2 DAYS, 2 DAYS! after her mum coming out of hospital she just left with her friend who she doesn't really like that much?? who is another female ....

i only found out when she was at the airport leaving the country, after i was pestering her that day asking her where she was because she was ignoring my phone calls (hadnt seen her all week because the crisis with the mum)

finally after a few messages and ignored phone calls i got a message from her saying... baby im at the airport im going to cyprus stay calm il call you and explain everything when i get there!... i was like WOT THE HELL

it was a shock to me how disloyal is she?

so i txt back and said i am calm but how come you didnt want me to come i thought you was meant to be going with with me?? i said

so she replied in txt .. its not that i didnt want you to come it all happened so quick! i didnt even book the flights Gabys boyfriend did dnt worry il call you when i get there baby x

so i replied saying i was shocked , ok if you didnt book the flights why are you not picking the phone up and i just wrote along txt saying i thought you was my friend how could you go with her i thought you didnt like her that much bla bla you no nothing tooo harsh! saying i was disapointed she left her mum stuff like that ...

didnt get a reply! so i went to her house and spoke to her mum < WELL i didnt know how long she was going for, i needed to find out! her mum had no idea she kept it secret from me, her mum wasnt happy about the whole situation about her leaving.

Later that evening it got late so i stayed in my girlfriends room.. and gee what a hard sleep that was!! just before i went to sleep i put some trash in her trash bin AND I FOUND A EMPTY CONDOM BOX IN HER TRASH I WAS SHOCKED AGAIN

so i told her mum, her mum told me it must be her friend gabby’s! Because she stayed over before they went, i was like ok...

BUT THATS NOT ALL I FOUND IN HER TRASH BIN, i found a ripped up letter she had been writing a sexual fantasy! all rude suggestions just a whole full on steamy love letter saying what she wants to do to this guy sexually, and it was a previous guy she dated before me, but he went to jail! the 1st month me and my girlfriend started dating, and then i found more letters she had been writing to him i only found 2 from him, he was asking for erotic pictures from her, and buy the looks of it she had sent him pictures with the letters she sent him, for some reason she kept all the draft copys which i found

the whole time she was out there for 2 weeks i didnt hear from her once , was this her way of dumping me???

i had 1 phone call from her which i missed saying on my voice mail.. JOHN i just spoke to my mum what the **** is going on!! call me back..

her mum obviously told her id been looking around in her room , so she probably wasn't happy , but at the end of the day i still caught her OUT!!

i still never heard from her when she came back,i left it a couple of weeks and i gave in and txted her saying i missed her and i forgotten about it all really, and i txtd her the other day saying , wish things never ended the way they did.... wish things were different

My friends have told me to dump her , what she has done is worse then cheating in a way!!!

my friends told me to ignore her too and I HAVE, but she hasnt bothered to call me or anything she hasnt even told me whats going on with the relationship?

Another thing she told me a week before she went on holiday she was PREGNANT tooo!! i was very reasonable about the situation and said i wasnt ready maybe she got angry about that, or maybe she was lying?? She was crying when she told me, she was saying we could get a house together and all this future planned stuff with the baby, and we did love each other very much, why did she turn so cold on me?? but she still hasnt told me whats going on with the pregnancy situation either ???? VERY CRUEL

WHAT DO I DOOO??

Her mums accident did freak her out abit she did say, and then the whole pregnancy thing maybe she just wanted to run away from it all???????????

AND IV JUST SEEN PICTURES OF HER KISSING ANOTHER GUY ON THAT HOLIDAY ON HER FRIENDS FACEBOOK PAGE ON THE INTERNET

SO NOW I KNOW SHES CHEATED!! AND I THINK THE CONDOMS WERE HERS

my friend told me to copy the letters i found and show her mum, and maybe write her a letter saying i dont know why it didnt work out maybe we should get on with our lives, to be honest i just want her to come crawling back if i do the old ignoring trick, which i have done ... its been 2 months and iv spoke to her probably 5 times on the phone jus talking small talk, last week she said she found a pad in her room which i wanted her to find eventually it was just a note with all my feelings on it,saying how bad she was and i knew about the letters shed been writing to this guy, etc

so now she knows i know about the letters , i was gonna keep it hidden from her,

i did ask her to think about meeting when she said about the pad on the phone she sounded a bit upset or quiet, i asked if she missed me she said nooo , LOL, and keeps saying iv gone on like a dickhead??

but maybe she was annoyed with the pad she found, i would just like to see her one last time and ask why she done all this? and the letters etc,

then walk away maybe and see if she comes back

im not really sure what i want at the moment im kinder getting used to girls cheating on me,i think im too nice to them i dont no i just pick the wrong ones! But she was the love of my life and iv been doing the NC and maybe call once a week to see how she is , i dnt want her move on and i still love her, and it is litrally a 10 minute small talk if i do ring her , its never good to keep talking about the problems you’ve gone through, sometimes shes happy on the phone sometime shes funny with me

get the impression she maybe misses me, it was just the note book she found last week she said it was abit weird , havnt spoke to her all week iv been too busy

SERIOUSLY READ UP ABOUT STAR SIGNS IT ALL MADE SENSE ABOUT THIS SCORPIO WOMAN , PLEASE GET BACK TO ME SORRY TO GO ON , THANKS ENGLISH MAN AKA JOHN

August 22, 2008

from 24yrs old from England my girlfriend < 26yrs old should know better

hey been with my girl over 3 months everything was great until her mum had a accident and had to go to hospital, so i let my girlfriend deal with it and gave her a week for space so she could spend time and look after her mum i was supportive and everything..... txting and calling asking if she needed help etc

then NEXT thing i no shes booked a holiday to go to cyprus in europe and she had no intention of telling me! we was meant to be going together but because her mum had the accident with her leg she said we would have to go in a couple of months until her mum got better! i was like ok kool! but 2 DAYS, 2 DAYS! after her mum coming out of hospital she just left with her friend who she doesn't really like that much?? who is another female ....

i only found out when she was at the airport leaving the country, after i was pestering her that day asking her where she was because she was ignoring my phone calls (hadnt seen her all week because the crisis with the mum)

finally after a few messages and ignored phone calls i got a message from her saying... baby im at the airport im going to cyprus stay calm il call you and explain everything when i get there!... i was like WOT THE HELL

it was a shock to me how disloyal is she?

so i txt back and said i am calm but how come you didnt want me to come i thought you was meant to be going with with me?? i said

so she replied in txt .. its not that i didnt want you to come it all happened so quick! i didnt even book the flights Gabys boyfriend did dnt worry il call you when i get there baby x

so i replied saying i was shocked , ok if you didnt book the flights why are you not picking the phone up and i just wrote along txt saying i thought you was my friend how could you go with her i thought you didnt like her that much bla bla you no nothing tooo harsh! saying i was disapointed she left her mum stuff like that ...

didnt get a reply! so i went to her house and spoke to her mum < WELL i didnt know how long she was going for, i needed to find out! her mum had no idea she kept it secret from me, her mum wasnt happy about the whole situation about her leaving.

Later that evening it got late so i stayed in my girlfriends room.. and gee what a hard sleep that was!! just before i went to sleep i put some trash in her trash bin AND I FOUND A EMPTY CONDOM BOX IN HER TRASH I WAS SHOCKED AGAIN

so i told her mum, her mum told me it must be her friend gabby’s! Because she stayed over before they went, i was like ok...

BUT THATS NOT ALL I FOUND IN HER TRASH BIN, i found a ripped up letter she had been writing a sexual fantasy! all rude suggestions just a whole full on steamy love letter saying what she wants to do to this guy sexually, and it was a previous guy she dated before me, but he went to jail! the 1st month me and my girlfriend started dating, and then i found more letters she had been writing to him i only found 2 from him, he was asking for erotic pictures from her, and buy the looks of it she had sent him pictures with the letters she sent him, for some reason she kept all the draft copys which i found

the whole time she was out there for 2 weeks i didnt hear from her once , was this her way of dumping me???

i had 1 phone call from her which i missed saying on my voice mail.. JOHN i just spoke to my mum what the **** is going on!! call me back..
her mum obviously told her id been looking around in her room , so she probably wasn't happy , but at the end of the day i still caught her OUT!!

i still never heard from her when she came back,i left it a couple of weeks and i gave in and txted her saying i missed her and i forgotten about it all really, and i txtd her the other day saying , wish things never ended the way they did.... wish things were different
My friends have told me to dump her , what she has done is worse then cheating in a way!!!
my friends told me to ignore her too and I HAVE, but she hasnt bothered to call me or anything she hasnt even told me whats going on with the relationship?
Another thing she told me a week before she went on holiday she was PREGNANT tooo!! i was very reasonable about the situation and said i wasnt ready maybe she got angry about that, or maybe she was lying?? She was crying when she told me, she was saying we could get a house together and all this future planned stuff with the baby, and we did love each other very much, why did she turn so cold on me?? but she still hasnt told me whats going on with the pregnancy situation either ???? VERY CRUEL

WHAT DO I DOOO??
Her mums accident did freak her out abit she did say, and then the whole pregnancy thing maybe she just wanted to run away from it all???????????

AND IV JUST SEEN PICTURES OF HER KISSING ANOTHER GUY ON THAT HOLIDAY ON HER FRIENDS FACEBOOK PAGE ON THE INTERNET

SO NOW I KNOW SHES CHEATED!! AND I THINK THE CONDOMS WERE HERS

my friend told me to copy the letters i found and show her mum, and maybe write her a letter saying i dont know why it didnt work out maybe we should get on with our lives, to be honest i just want her to come crawling back if i do the old ignoring trick, which i have done ... its been 2 months and iv spoke to her probably 5 times on the phone jus talking small talk, last week she said she found a pad in her room which i wanted her to find eventually it was just a note with all my feelings on it,saying how bad she was and i knew about the letters shed been writing to this guy, etc
so now she knows i know about the letters , i was gonna keep it hidden from her,
i did ask her to think about meeting when she said about the pad on the phone she sounded a bit upset or quiet, i asked if she missed me she said nooo , LOL, and keeps saying iv gone on like a dickhead??
but maybe she was annoyed with the pad she found, i would just like to see her one last time and ask why she done all this? and the letters etc,
then walk away maybe and see if she comes back

im not really sure what i want at the moment im kinder getting used to girls cheating on me,i think im too nice to them i dont no i just pick the wrong ones! But she was the love of my life and iv been doing the NC and maybe call once a week to see how she is , i dnt want her move on and i still love her, and it is litrally a 10 minute small talk if i do ring her , its never good to keep talking about the problems you’ve gone through, sometimes shes happy on the phone sometime shes funny with me
get the impression she maybe misses me, it was just the note book she found last week she said it was abit weird , havnt spoke to her all week iv been too busy
SERIOUSLY READ UP ABOUT STAR SIGNS IT ALL MADE SENSE ABOUT THIS SCORPIO WOMAN , PLEASE GET BACK TO ME SORRY TO GO ON , THANKS ENGLISH MAN AKA JOHN

You really need to find out if she is pregnant and if the baby is yours first. It's pretty irresponsible of her not to tell you whats going on with that. You don't want her knocking on your door 9 months later holding a baby, you know? I don't recommend going through her friends and family to dig up dirt on her, but in this case talk to them if it's the only way to find out the truth if she is pregnant.

If the baby isn't yours or if she's not even really pregnant, I would walk away from the situation. Do you really want a girl like this that is hiding things, playing games, not being straight forward? Seeing pics of her kissing another guy on the trip she was supposed to go on with you would be enough for me to not want that person. The love of your life wouldn't treat you like that. Keep ignoring her, don't call her or text and don't talk to her mum. Start dating other girls, don't rush into anything serious, just go out with other girls and have fun.

Now if the baby is yours, you have alot more to deal with and that you will need to talk to her about. If she won't talk to you about it...I'm not really sure what to do, maybe someone else can chime in with more advice in that situation.

August 23, 2008

So the questions is, to be or not to be? That is the question. If you are the father of the baby you just cant move on and forget her. But the way it looks, she make it looks like its not your baby.

If its not your baby your gonna have no choice but to move on and go NC, trust me it'll hurt you way to much to see her pregnant by another man.

Your ex is doing the exact same thing that me and my ex are going through right now. Only my ex has a new BF, and shes still sending me sexual text messages and now shes back to sending me nude pictures.

So shes cheating on her new BF with me, so the only diffrence is where on diffrent sides of the fence.

I know you love her and want to be with her, but do you really want someone who has been having sex with another man, while with you?

Can you really live comfortable, because everytime you and her have sex, all your gonna do is think about her and the other guy! And I read your other post also, the only cheating you have proof of is the kissing.

She says there just some playful kisses, but in a relationship thats a NO NO, think about how she would react and feel and if you were he one kissing other females or if she found condoms in your room???? She would probably drop you like a bad habit. And the nude photo and sexual fantasy thing is a big problem too, so your saying you'll be fine with her sending pictures to other men?

But love is love, some Im gonna give you some advice, you need to get to the bottom of things soon, she owes you a explanantion, she needs to answers questions about the pregnancy, the cheating, the guy and such.

So next time you talk to her, you need to find out to what exactly your dealing with here.

August 23, 2008

You really need to find out if she is pregnant and if the baby is yours first. It's pretty irresponsible of her not to tell you whats going on with that. You don't want her knocking on your door 9 months later holding a baby, you know? I don't recommend going through her friends and family to dig up dirt on her, but in this case talk to them if it's the only way to find out the truth if she is pregnant.

If the baby isn't yours or if she's not even really pregnant, I would walk away from the situation. Do you really want a girl like this that is hiding things, playing games, not being straight forward? Seeing pics of her kissing another guy on the trip she was supposed to go on with you would be enough for me to not want that person. The love of your life wouldn't treat you like that. Keep ignoring her, don't call her or text and don't talk to her mum. Start dating other girls, don't rush into anything serious, just go out with other girls and have fun.

Now if the baby is yours, you have alot more to deal with and that you will need to talk to her about. If she won't talk to you about it...I'm not really sure what to do, maybe someone else can chime in with more advice in that situation.

THE BABY WAS DEFIANTLY MINE LOL, but its jus the way she went on, most likely she got rid of it.she told me she finds it hard to conceive and it will be hard for her to have a baby this is what the doctor said, so she might of really wanted this kid, might of made her head flip a bit sideways

August 23, 2008

So the questions is, to be or not to be? That is the question. If you are the father of the baby you just cant move on and forget her. But the way it looks, she make it looks like its not your baby.
If its not your baby your gonna have no choice but to move on and go NC, trust me it'll hurt you way to much to see her pregnant by another man.

Your ex is doing the exact same thing that me and my ex are going through right now. Only my ex has a new BF, and shes still sending me sexual text messages and now shes back to sending me nude pictures.
So shes cheating on her new BF with me, so the only diffrence is where on diffrent sides of the fence.

I know you love her and want to be with her, but do you really want someone who has been having sex with another man, while with you?
Can you really live comfortable, because everytime you and her have sex, all your gonna do is think about her and the other guy! And I read your other post also, the only cheating you have proof of is the kissing.
She says there just some playful kisses, but in a relationship thats a NO NO, think about how she would react and feel and if you were he one kissing other females or if she found condoms in your room???? She would probably drop you like a bad habit. And the nude photo and sexual fantasy thing is a big problem too, so your saying you'll be fine with her sending pictures to other men?

But love is love, some Im gonna give you some advice, you need to get to the bottom of things soon, she owes you a explanantion, she needs to answers questions about the pregnancy, the cheating, the guy and such.

So next time you talk to her, you need to find out to what exactly your dealing with here.

WiseOne, ur certainly wise lol thanks man!! yea sorry to hear about your chick ! woman are bitches man, next time ur in a relationship you shoud read about there star sign on the net, ur b surprised!! or reaad about your ex!! all makes sense lol

ok ok i know i need a explanation for all this crap , still wouldnt class the kiss thing as cheating alltho i no what ur saying, ok so iv left it nearly 3 months but spoken to her on the phone a few times? have i left it too long to start asking/shouting for explanation agree i think we need to talk, she hates it when i ask loads of questions, i do to, shes so difficult to reason with somtimes, cos she hates the question thing,

iv been to busy but wen i spoke to her last week i did say, u shuld think about us meeting up would b nice to see youu, what sort of approach shall give it , im tryna be nice as the situation is bit delicate , its sort of working... jus so i get the chance to c her face to face... god i hope we dont end up having sex ... lol wuldnt mind nooo gotta be stong

August 23, 2008

WiseOne, ur certainly wise lol thanks man!! yea sorry to hear about your chick ! woman are bitches man, next time ur in a relationship you shoud read about there star sign on the net, ur b surprised!! or reaad about your ex!! all makes sense lol

ok ok i know i need a explanation for all this crap , still wouldnt class the kiss thing as cheating alltho i no what ur saying, ok so iv left it nearly 3 months but spoken to her on the phone a few times? have i left it too long to start asking/shouting for explanation agree i think we need to talk, she hates it when i ask loads of questions, i do to, shes so difficult to reason with somtimes, cos she hates the question thing,
iv been to busy but wen i spoke to her last week i did say, u shuld think about us meeting up would b nice to see youu, what sort of approach shall give it , im tryna be nice as the situation is bit delicate , its sort of working... jus so i get the chance to c her face to face... god i hope we dont end up having sex ... lol wuldnt mind nooo gotta be stong

hi not all women are bitches:p

if you suggested meeting up and she has not replied then you need to move on.. if she is having your baby she will get in touch..

best thing you can do is give her some space.. work on yourself, stop checking her facebook.. noone puts unhappy pics up .. and a kiss is just a kiss..

oh and welcome:) fellow uk love shacker

August 24, 2008

hi not all women are bitches:p

if you suggested meeting up and she has not replied then you need to move on.. if she is having your baby she will get in touch..

best thing you can do is give her some space.. work on yourself, stop checking her facebook.. noone puts unhappy pics up .. and a kiss is just a kiss..

oh and welcome:) fellow uk love shacker

I DONT CHECK ON HER FACEBOOK, lol i sent u a message on there the otherday funny enough ! saying lets go on a wind up!hehe

yea im getting on with my life but weve both started new jobs been really busy yea she was kinder in a mood bout sumthing when i asked bout meeting up

she is a proppa bitch this one, how culd any woman say there pregnant and piss off to the other side of europe then not talk to me when she comes back ?? it cos she smokes weed everyday shes a head case, but i jus no theres somthing still there, she was real nice to me other week on the phone

hmm is a difficult one il ring her next week, really want to txt her twice a week and say hope ur ok n stuff n maybe i love her , but the NC and the 3 phone calls a month is ok , hope shes ok

August 26, 2008

I DONT CHECK ON HER FACEBOOK, lol i sent u a message on there the otherday funny enough ! saying lets go on a wind up!hehe

yea im getting on with my life but weve both started new jobs been really busy yea she was kinder in a mood bout sumthing when i asked bout meeting up

she is a proppa bitch this one, how culd any woman say there pregnant and piss off to the other side of europe then not talk to me when she comes back ?? it cos she smokes weed everyday shes a head case, but i jus no theres somthing still there, she was real nice to me other week on the phone

hmm is a difficult one il ring her next week, really want to txt her twice a week and say hope ur ok n stuff n maybe i love her , but the NC and the 3 phone calls a month is ok , hope shes ok

haha so you was the one!! lol i like wind ups;)

i know its tough to not contact but it helps you an hopefully makes them miss you..

helps you to rebuild your life and not make them the priority..

i know its tough , i now have my ex number and saw him friday but im just taking it slow:love:

i have lost my internet access an im borrowin this so

im on here an there.. curtisy of doris lol

stay strong:)

August 28, 2008

haha so you was the one!! lol i like wind ups;)

i know its tough to not contact but it helps you an hopefully makes them miss you..
helps you to rebuild your life and not make them the priority..

i know its tough , i now have my ex number and saw him friday but im just taking it slow:love:

i have lost my internet access an im borrowin this so
im on here an there.. curtisy of doris lol

stay strong:)

what do you think i should say to her as a convosation starter?? its been a few months i have spoken to her bout 4, 5 times on the phone in these months only breifly

whats better txt or phone? we really need to sort out the confusion and tie up loose ends before we move on ,

August 28, 2008

So the questions is, to be or not to be? That is the question. If you are the father of the baby you just cant move on and forget her. But the way it looks, she make it looks like its not your baby.
If its not your baby your gonna have no choice but to move on and go NC, trust me it'll hurt you way to much to see her pregnant by another man.

Your ex is doing the exact same thing that me and my ex are going through right now. Only my ex has a new BF, and shes still sending me sexual text messages and now shes back to sending me nude pictures.
So shes cheating on her new BF with me, so the only diffrence is where on diffrent sides of the fence.

I know you love her and want to be with her, but do you really want someone who has been having sex with another man, while with you?
Can you really live comfortable, because everytime you and her have sex, all your gonna do is think about her and the other guy! And I read your other post also, the only cheating you have proof of is the kissing.
She says there just some playful kisses, but in a relationship thats a NO NO, think about how she would react and feel and if you were he one kissing other females or if she found condoms in your room???? She would probably drop you like a bad habit. And the nude photo and sexual fantasy thing is a big problem too, so your saying you'll be fine with her sending pictures to other men?

But love is love, some Im gonna give you some advice, you need to get to the bottom of things soon, she owes you a explanantion, she needs to answers questions about the pregnancy, the cheating, the guy and such.

So next time you talk to her, you need to find out to what exactly your dealing with here.

ok man i jus sent her a message saying hey hope ur algood when you get this message can you txt me back

she txt back saying , ... i got your message?

so then i put ur advice in to action

i sent one back 10 minutes later saying...

hey did you go carnival? just wanted to no if you was free sometime hun, so we can have a honest heart to heart to clear up any confusion? i still have some of your brothers dvds to x

...did i word it ok?? hope its alright jus waiting for her to txt back now, she probaly doesnt wanna no

o my god

she txt back saying ....

Post the dvds, dont think its a good idea for us to meet up you know its done, just leave it as that now yeah. . take care X

well anyway i txt back saying...

Yea i know, i got dumped over facebook didnt i, just thought it would of been good to have a freindly chat and tie up a few loose ends before i move on, sorry for trying

she hasnt txt back

but im so so tempted to txt , and be like how could you be so weird i havnt even done anything!your the one that cheated dont you think i deserve a explanation!.. or how could you be like this after somthing so special we had together i havent even done anything wrong!

........ but thats what we call DRUNK DIALLING TXTING LOL??

might push her away more .....

are you good on these things! remember i think english girls maybe alot different to american girls, but anyway what do i do now> ring her tomorow and be resonable down the phone i was thinkin, and persuade a little to meet up next week?? what you think? i deffiantly need to see her ! dam i shulda just gone round there when she came back from holiday, .. but if it the last thing i do im defiantly gonna see her before i move on, even if it means just turning up somtime

August 28, 2008

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she txt back saying ....

Post the dvds, dont think its a good idea for us to meet up you know its done, just leave it as that now yeah. . take care X

well anyway i txt back saying...

Yea i know, i got dumped over facebook didnt i, just thought it would of been good to have a freindly chat and tie up a few loose ends before i move on, sorry for trying

she hasnt txt back

but im so so tempted to txt , and be like how could you be so weird i havnt even done anything!your the one that cheated dont you think i deserve a explanation!.. or how could you be like this after somthing so special we had together i havent even done anything wrong!

........ but thats what we call DRUNK DIALLING TXTING LOL??

might push her away more .....

are you good on these things! remember i think english girls maybe alot different to american girls, but anyway what do i do now> ring her tomorow and be resonable down the phone i was thinkin, and persuade a little to meet up next week?? what you think? i deffiantly need to see her ! dam i shulda just gone round there when she came back from holiday, .. but if it the last thing i do im defiantly gonna see her before i move on, even if it means just turning up somtime

English or American, I think she's saying she doesn't want to see you -- whether that's for now or permanently, pushing her more about it will push her further away. It sounds like she's an avoider... you may never really be able to tie up loose ends because she doesn't seem like the type to take responsibility. I'm sorry you're going through this.

August 28, 2008

English or American, I think she's saying she doesn't want to see you -- whether that's for now or permanently, pushing her more about it will push her further away. It sounds like she's an avoider... you may never really be able to tie up loose ends because she doesn't seem like the type to take responsibility. I'm sorry you're going through this.

shes makin me hate her , shes such a idiot, keeping cools the best way il probably call her next week or sumthing, might be stressed cos shes starting a new job monday

jus leaving it all to long means shel move on , even if she does move on anyway shes gonna find it hard to maintain in a relationship, shes gonna be doing dance teaching 10 hours a day including weekends, i jus wanna c her face to face 1 time and move on

August 28, 2008

shes makin me hate her , shes such a idiot, keeping cools the best way il probably call her next week or sumthing, might be stressed cos shes starting a new job monday

jus leaving it all to long means shel move on , even if she does move on anyway shes gonna find it hard to maintain in a relationship, shes gonna be doing dance teaching 10 hours a day including weekends, i jus wanna c her face to face 1 time and move on

start working on yourself.. she has no loose ends she is not wanting you anymore she has made it clear now..

If you call she will prob change her number.. there is no reason to call.. just be setting yourself up for hurt imo

dont worry about how she s feeling.. if she have time to date blar blar.. why care?

i know i sound harsh but it is clear in the texts she sent you and her actions..

you sound really cool oh english one... but dont be a fool for a girl who is not into you;)

find somone who is:)

hugs to you x

August 29, 2008

Hey I'm going through the same thing regarding being unable to tie up loose ends. She's still nice, enjoyable and flirty but that's just how she is with everyone. All the conversations I have with my ex are extremely civil. Even during the relationship we only had two semi-major arguments, which were due to me not contacting her for ONE day, each time (she's a princess).

But she just goes silent when I mention the relationship. She went from total hot to cold in a single day, and now is an entire month since that day - I still haven't managed to get her to even tell me that it's over or say she doesn't have feelings for me. I do know there's another guy involved, though she's told me about 20 times she's made a big mistake.

Every question illicits a non-direct response.

Are you going to break up with him?

I think I will.

Do you still have feelings for me?

Yes, I still care about you.

Do you think you'll come back to me?

I can't predict the future.

Am I wasting my time trying to get you back?

I like it.. and I still like you..

It's driving me goddamn insane!!!@ I know I should probably give up and go NC but she's stringing me along and refusing to give me closure, it makes it so much harder!

August 29, 2008

how do woman think though?? lol

this ones absolute bastard i was looking her mum for Christ sake while she was away on holiday! her mum had a accident and nearly died before she went on holiday and she jus left her!! and she told me she was pregnant before she went on holiday

absolute bull#**$@ im going round there like end of next week to see her and and have words with her she cant just txt me and say ..o its done, post my dvds to me i dont think it a good idea to meet up take care x , shes got explaining to do why there were sexual fantasy letters in her room to some man , she has s@~#ted on me every way possible in 1 week i found this out, and shes telling me her undieing love at the same time , she nos shes in the wrong and being a coward bout things ,i havnt raised my voice at her or brought this stuff up iv been trying to be friendly with her so i can eventually see her its been 3 months now

i need advise what to say to her so she doesnt end up hating me , well to be honest i dont care if she does i jus wanna see her one last time

time is the essence i cant just bring all that stuff up in another 3 months time if shes willing to meet me

just no point she needs to no wots shes done wrong , she thinks im to blame for all this, for not answering her call for when she was on holiday im a idiot apparently?? thats wot she says, puh !! she cant jus go through life doing this especially to her mum, her mum was crying for god sake when she left

August 29, 2008

if she can be cruel to her mum like that .. what chance do you have?

how long was you together?

what do you expect to get from seeing her one last time?

closure? ifyou dont want her to hate you.. just leave it..

i think you will see her no matter what and tbh i think she will shut the door on you.. blame you for whatever.. you will feel worse, not better.

just do what will make you happy.. you are the important one not her;)

if there was clear sign she wanted you back or was open to discussion with you my advice would be different.. but she is giving the its over signs imo

August 29, 2008

if she can be cruel to her mum like that .. what chance do you have?

how long was you together?

what do you expect to get from seeing her one last time?

closure? ifyou dont want her to hate you.. just leave it..

i think you will see her no matter what and tbh i think she will shut the door on you.. blame you for whatever.. you will feel worse, not better.

just do what will make you happy.. you are the important one not her;)

if there was clear sign she wanted you back or was open to discussion with you my advice would be different.. but she is giving the its over signs imo

4 months but shes saying how comfortable she was with me all the needy airplay stuff, i dont really care if she hates me anyway she lives miles away, in hartfordshire anyway and that new job shes in would never had worked anyway due to the long hours inc weekends, im over that,

but yh i wouldnt get the door slammed in my face her mum loves me due to the fact i looked after her when she came out of hospital

id just surprise her by waiting till she gets back! see what the b@#th has got to say then see ya later

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