Break Up Blues -

[Kaka]

didn't know who to get advice off so I decided maybe the best advice will come from people who don't know me. I have just broken up with my boyfried of 5 yrs. We have a house and discussed marriage etc.

 

My boyfried loves his happy pills and in five years I've never stopped him from doing anything. Maybe this is where I went wrong. He always got what he wanted cos I just wanted to make him happy. However, in the last year it got really bad. I ended up on double dates on my own, he'd leave me in a pub and not say anything.

 

He took me for granted and all I asked was every now and again for him to do something nice. Its the small things that count with me.

 

Even the bedroom life was gone. I told him I wanted to break up cos I thought it would spur him now. It has back fired. We are selling the house and he has slept with someone else.

 

I know I should be angry but I'm not. I've never felt pain like this before and I'm having panic attacks, thinking about him. I want him back but don't know how to do it. He says he doesn't know how he feels anymore.

 

Everyone says I am better off without him but I love him so much.

 

Will he eventually come back to me?

Do I try with him?

Do I try move on?

[saams]

why would you ever even consider going back with him ? seriously..

 

Leave and never look back, delete hes phone number and change yours so he cant call you if he wanted to sometime.

 

not just move on but you should completly block him out of your life, dont give him any reason to contact you and dont contact him.

 

I think you have been together so long that you are afraid of being alone and you'll feel like something is missing and yes it will hurt alot losing him but after awhile you'll see how much better off you are without him and when your ready again go date other people and when you find someone else you will again see how much better a relationship can be.

 

personally the idea of leaving my girlfriend in a pub and stuff like that just would never happen, the day if that ever happens to me is the day i completely lost love for her and i think it's verry much disrespectful him doing it this way to you instead of just telling you how things is.