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Hey buddy you got a good sense of humor but it's really too bad that you can't express yourself to this girl like the way you did here. :)

 

First things first, don't tell her you like her... well, at least not yet, anyway. If you do, it'll be REALLY awkward and it might put her off.

 

You've acknowledged the fact that you are lacking in self-confidence and therefore you are self-conscious. You'll want to tackle this problem first. Learn how to gain your self-confidence which in turn will make you feel less self-conscious. Unfortunately, I can't tell you exactly how to go about fixing this issue since there are a myriad of ways, but based on what you've posted I suppose you can learn to dress better as well as straighten up your posture.

 

Becareful with this girl, though, because even if she laughs or seems to look at you she may just be trying to be friendly. That's the problem with many of us guys, we look too much into signs from a girl that next thing we know we start to believe that they're into us when in reality the girl is just being nice but really has no interest in us.

 

Speaking of this girl, I'm sure there's a girl out there who's just like her in personality but you've just not met her yet. If this girl now doesn't reciprocate any feelings towards you then let her go. I know it's easier said than done but you'll have to be able to do that, so in the future you CAN meet (and hopefully hook up with) a girl similar to her or even better.

 

And one last thing, don't be desperate. I saw that word somewhere on your post and that's a big no-no lol. :p

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Hey Suiyobi, thanks for the advice :D .. I took my post down because I felt a little silly for posting it on the internet. :lmao::o

 

Tnx for your time though

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