CommitmentPhobe Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 I don't think it is a good idea to marry a person you don't have a strong attraction and feelings for. He may be a good provider and may become an excellent husband but the spark hat to be there also; at least to some significant extent. Yeah for you it does. Some people are happy to settle without such a "spark", and choose things such as security and companionship. If you believe half of what you read on this forum you would end up thinking that we live in Utopia, where eventually the right person meets the right person and everyone lives happily ever after. This woman has a possible chance of having children, perhaps taking it would be a good decision for her. Perhaps not. The point is that we don't live in this utopian idealistic place where everyone finds their spark and lives happily ever after. As much as Oprah and Dr Phil would like you to believe this - after all they make a lot of money out of spoon feeding that kind of bs to people that lap it up like religion.
stillafool Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 I would only marry a man I was in love with. Suppose you marry this guy and still have problems conceiving? Can you still remain married to him content with no children? What happens if at his age he gets sick and you will have to care for him and your children? Do you love him enough for that? There are some serious questions you need to ask yourself before you marry a man you don't love.
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