JoeNewbie Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 I still can't believe what happened yesterday. After being the victim of yet another case of "hot and cold", I was inclined to just take things easy. That's until she suggested we go for lunch yesterday. This co-worker of mine is in her early forties. She is exceptionally pretty and her skin is still smooth. She always wears elegant and conservative clothes, which makes her look confident and sexy. I bumped into her in the elevator and quickly noticed she was wearing a rather revealing top. It wasn't inappropriate or anything, it looked really nice. I couldn't believe how shapely were her breasts. We ate sushi in the park and had a fantastic chat. She caught me checking her out several times and it made her smile. Because she is older, it's tough for me to figure out whether she was just being "comfortably friendly". Anyhow, before the end of the day she e-mailed me her home phone number. Does this sound positive enough for me to take a chance and call her?
yongyong Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 she knows you are already into her. she knows you would def call her. who knows? she just want some validation from younger guy to boost her ego? I would take it very slowly. you can just reply to her saying it was great time but you don't have to call her till she makes another effort again.
Groovy Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 My two cents as I am dealing with an older man interested in me though my situation is a little more serious. (We're both a lot older and I want kids with him maybe). Do you want the same things in life? Do your values and mindset match? Could you be attracted to her? Does she want to make you happy? If you say yes to these things go for it. It's hard enough finding a match on these things and find true friends, let alone worrying about age on top of everything else. Best of luck!
Green Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 Could she be any more obvious... dude if you want her she is yours.
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 22, 2008 Author Posted August 22, 2008 Do you want the same things in life? Do your values and mindset match? Could you be attracted to her? Does she want to make you happy? If you say yes to these things go for it. It's hard enough finding a match on these things and find true friends, let alone worrying about age on top of everything else. Best of luck! I must admit I barely know her. Our age difference will definitely become an obstacle in the long run. I want children and she's already too old for that. I am definitely attracted to her sexually and I must say I am very curious to find out her skills. I've never been with a woman with so much "experience". She also seems quite warm and passionate. Now, my dilemma is, do I call her today or should I wait next week? It seems like today would be too fast and next week is too far away...
Taramere Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 Now, my dilemma is, do I call her today or should I wait next week? It seems like today would be too fast and next week is too far away... She might be dead by next week. I think you should give her a call now.
Balthazar Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 Call now. This woman knows what she wants and older women are less likely to play games. She will appreciate a direct approach. Have fun!
Author JoeNewbie Posted August 22, 2008 Author Posted August 22, 2008 Call now. This woman knows what she wants and older women are less likely to play games. She will appreciate a direct approach. Have fun! Thanks! I was just recently "played" so that's why I'm a bit unsure right now. But I think I might ask her out this weekend then.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 She might be dead by next week. I think you should give her a call now. Lol Make sure you are both upfront about what you want and there is no confusion. It wouldn't be right to mess with her feelings.
reservoirdog1 Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 I don't think it could be any more obvious if she dropped to her knees and unzipped your pants. I was going to ask you how great the age difference is, but I don't think it necessarily matters. If you both just want a roll in the hay (and after 40, women tend to be much more in tune with what they want and much more sexually confident), then I say go for it. If she wants something more, then you have to consider the issue of children, and the age difference becomes more important. But in the meantime... have fun.
Tripper Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 Anyhow, before the end of the day she e-mailed me her home phone number. Does this sound positive enough for me to take a chance and call her? Now, my dilemma is, do I call her today or should I wait next week? It seems like today would be too fast and next week is too far away... Given the above, if you can't figure out she wants you to call her and when then you're not ready to date an older woman.
almost famous Posted August 23, 2008 Posted August 23, 2008 She still very well could get pregnant. That Rielle woman had a baby by John Edwards or whatever his name is, from their affair or whatever, and she is 44.
Author JoeNewbie Posted September 3, 2008 Author Posted September 3, 2008 I found out today that it wasn't her home number she gave me but rather her cell phone. And one more thing... She is married! We had lunch together a couple of times and she is supposed to come over on Friday...
flc Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 You really want to get together with a MW? Trouble lies ahead my friend.
paddington bear Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 I am definitely attracted to her sexually and I must say I am very curious to find out her skills. I've never been with a woman with so much "experience". Ha ha! Me and my friends talking about sleeping with younger guys and what we'd say: 'Hey cute young guy, come to bed with me, I have all these tricks that I can do'. Cue chorus of laughter as we don't know any tricks or moves, younger guys just assume we do.
norajane Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 I found out today that it wasn't her home number she gave me but rather her cell phone. And one more thing... She is married! We had lunch together a couple of times and she is supposed to come over on Friday... Boom, boom, boom! Do you hear that? That's your ethical code banging on your brain. It's telling you: married = off limits. Or it should be telling you that.
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