oknowhat Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Please Read Might Be Kind Of Long Excuse My Writing Have Some What Learning disability-THANKS I have been married for about 11 years. I know right now shes involved with somebody right now. I thought about getting back at her for hurting me in this way but wont solve the issue plus the karma effect that will have on you long term wont be good. The thing can not figure out that she is a 100 percent supportive about my job and how I feel and my life. One instance is that she asked me to see a doctor about taking Adderall for ADHD been taking it for about 6 months what a difference it has made in my life for work and paying attention. It has helped me so much, most likely without this I would not have gotten really far in my current job Im in. Shes nice to me not vindictive,mean in any way shape or form. If some one was cheating on you they would be mean to you or condescending to you but she it not. I know it is not my fault for her cheating on me your 100 percent responsible for your actions same goes for the other person marriage is not 50/50. I cant justify getting revenge on her for what she did for me. In some cases some of the things she has done for me in my life has helped me a lot to get ahead. Cant figure where she coming from. Thanks for taking the time out of your day to read this.
flower_fairy11 Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Love, have you asked her?! It sounds like you have good communication, have you asked her if she's cheating?! Or maybe you can ask her what she needs and feels she isn't getting from you...
TrustInYourself Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Love, have you asked her?! It sounds like you have good communication, have you asked her if she's cheating?! Or maybe you can ask her what she needs and feels she isn't getting from you... Bingo, be prepared for a change after this question comes out. Sparks fly!
Ronni_W Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 If some one was cheating on you they would be mean to you or condescending to you Actually, that is not necessarily accurate. People who are having affairs can be as loving and supportive as ever (except in area of fidelity, of course.) In fact, if that person doesn't want to screw-up the rest of her/his life, then there is even MORE incentive to act in extremely loving and supportive ways, be extra-attentive, and so on.
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