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No worries, I've been in the same boat. Girls like those are notorious for just putting up their faces but hiding their bodies. I found one like that on a dating site, when she added me to her facebook I eventually saw 'more' of her through her pictures. She kept trying to ask me out, I didn't want to be mean so I just gave her the busy line everytime. Eventually she just moved on and met another guy.

 

I think if girls like these want to be accepted for who they are, they shouldn't be hiding themselves like that.

Don't blame yourself or feel bad about being a bad guy..things like this happen sometimes.

 

I feel no remorse for this girl, but I still was interested i the most tactful way out of this and I really like the "My ex and I are probably getting back togather" coupled with ignoring her. I was actualy thinking of flat out saying I don't like you now that I saw pics with your body in it... but that really can't go good

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I feel no remorse for this girl, but I still was interested i the most tactful way out of this and I really like the "My ex and I are probably getting back togather" coupled with ignoring her. I was actualy thinking of flat out saying I don't like you now that I saw pics with your body in it... but that really can't go good

 

If you don't want to be upfront with her, then just disappear instead of lying. All she's doing is disappointing guys and putting them on the spot, and she knows it. I'm guessing you're not the first guy who has 'gone back with the ex'.

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booo, no I was not looking for a one night stand.

 

I was bored/horney last night and sent some mesages to girls looking for guys to date on CL.

 

I'm sorry but if that's not an ONS then I don't know what it is. I thought you would have more class than to go on CL.

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I'm sorry but if that's not an ONS then I don't know what it is. I thought you would have more class than to go on CL.

 

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lmao this happens a lot to me when girls add me on facebook (im in college)

 

my friend called it "the angles" when a fat girl takes a pic of mostly her face and uses a funky angle make the rest of her look slim. Then you get to the the real pics and are like what the hell happened to the hot girl in the profile pic?!

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If she is about 5' 6"

size 0 2 4 is fit

over 6 is chubby

over 10 is def fat

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hey since ur one of my biggest fans go check out this LStribute [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UREDuztiEmA[/sIZE][/FONT]

 

:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:

 

Is that you KMT? If it is... you so left me out :p

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I think fat on a girl could be attractive, I'm just not attracted to this specific girl. As two seperate posters have said I'm going to go with the my ex has come back into my life. I really barely spoke to this girl. She had a picturless add on craigslist. I sent her a message. She sent me a link to her myspace which was on private so I could only see the profile pic of her face which I knew could be the face attached to an unatractive body. Low and behold when she added me as a friend and I looked at her pics it was. So now I will have to let her know about how my ex and me are getting back togather
Oh good grief! No need for mental gymnastics as this is very straightforward.

 

She is well aware that most men have a body type preference as do most women. She uses her profile pic to lure men in that she knows won't be attracted by her body type.

 

Tell her straight up you are one of those men. You might mention that she is missing out on opportunities to meet men who do like her body type by hiding it. There is no reason for a person to present themselves as anything other than what they are if they want to have any success in meeting someone compatible.

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Wow, no wonder there are women around the world starving themselves skinny to impress men that think women like Camryn Manheim is fat.

 

A full figured, big boned woman is sexy as hell!!

 

Why would anyone want to bang a skinny chick that has the build of a spice rack?

 

I can't wait until full figured models receive more exposure, cause the whole skinny, anorexic look is gross, and played out.

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Yeah I see some girls with really nice faces, even bone structure showing. Then they stand up to go get a drink and WOW they have too much junk in their trunk, tires etc.

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I have to have chemistry and part of that is physical attraction

 

Just tell the girl that you're sorry but that you don't think you're a good match.

 

It's honest but tactful.

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Just ignore her and never talk to her again. Easy as that.

 

No need to feel guilty just cause she is BBW or because you got her number.

 

Just don't ever call her and ignore her, don't email her back and dont ever pick up the phone if she calls. You don't owe her anything. You don't have to make up an explanation or whatever, just go cold turkey. That's what I do when I want to get rid of someone.

 

If it's someone I don't really know (especially if its someone I only met for a day and chatted with online or had just one phone conversation with) then I don't give a damn, I just cut them off. Even if it's someone that I DO know, if they wronged me, I can still cut them off just like that.

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Have some balls and just tell her that you still think she is pretty but you didn't realize she was a plus sized. Tell her you're not trying to offend her but that plus sized women are not your type and you would rather be honest than be an ass.

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Well no duh, I do go out and meet people, but then you encounter different kinds of fat girl situations. This is about a girl I met on the internet yesterday who is fat. I met all but one of the girls I've dated in person first.

 

I'm not surprised someone fat would date online...I mean what did you expect to find? Good looking people don't need to find people on the internet...

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If she is about 5' 6"

size 0 2 4 is fit

over 6 is chubby

over 10 is def fat

 

someone who is 5'6" and a size 0 would be hugely anorexic...considering I am 5'1" and a size 0 and people think I have an eating disorder...

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If she is about 5' 6"

size 0 2 4 is fit

over 6 is chubby

over 10 is def fat

 

Over 6 at 5'6" is chubby????

 

Geez.:confused:

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Well.. why not keep her as a friend? Message her a couple times about borin stuff (weather, politics, basketball :p haha).

 

I know this is rude sounding, but having a bigger bodied woman on your friends list might give the impression that you are actually well-rounded enough to appreciate a woman's personality.

 

It could give you credibility when you tell women you're looking for someone who's got a great personality. Usually all I hear when a guy says that (without factual evidence to back it up) is "I'm looking for a great body". :p Then I think of him as 'walking penis' with no attributes I desire.

 

Yea that was rude sounding. As if having a plus sized woman in his top friends shows what a great guy he is because God knows if you deal with plus sized people you must be an all around great person! Because everyone knows that if you give a plus sized person the time of day you must really be a person of substance, being the rejects that they are. Gimme a f.uckin break. :sick:

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Sexy isn't just about weight. It's also someone's energy and how they portray themselves..

 

*Portray not sure if that's it's spelled. LOL!*

 

Present themselves..That's a better word.

 

I don't care how someone presents himself- if he's fat, he can count on never dating me...I take care of myself and I would expect my mate to do the same.

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I'm not surprised someone fat would date online...I mean what did you expect to find? Good looking people don't need to find people on the internet...

 

Head nail head hit on...

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I'm not surprised someone fat would date online...I mean what did you expect to find? Good looking people don't need to find people on the internet...

 

That's a very generalized statement.

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This is why you always ask for a face pic AND a full-body pic! :) Then you can avoid this awkward situations.

 

BTW, I didn't know that a US size 8 at 5'6 is chubby. Really?? Even when I was underweight I couldn't squeeze into a size 4. I have hips (bone structure -- thank you, Mom) and I have boobs. I wear anywhere from 4-8, depending on the designer. I had no idea I was chubby!

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I've done the online thing, and I'm far from fat or not good looking. It's just that the pickin's are sometimes slim, depending on where you live, and it helps to broaden the playing field. ;) I've found some very good looking guys on the net, and they're not all just out to get laid.

 

See, I have come to realize that people who make negative comments about online dating are people who have never even tried it, so their comments are mainly based on assumptions.

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Okay being a female I'll help you as best I can.

 

Alrighty, well be honest, but don't tell her its her weight, just say you found something on her profile, that you dislike with a passion, it should help.

 

Also if she ask if your lying and its her pictures, DENY, she'll freak first off and then block you, maybe have the balls to report you for something, who knows.

 

Anyway, if that doesn't work, then tell her if you have to about her picture that it was misleading and you thought her body type was different from her picture she used as a main profile pic.

 

Tell her you can atleast try to be friends and then stay busy so she can't really contact you, but also approve comments and what not on myspace so she doesn't leave you any that you don't want seen.

 

anything else you need to know, just holler...

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No worries, I've been in the same boat. Girls like those are notorious for just putting up their faces but hiding their bodies. I found one like that on a dating site, when she added me to her facebook I eventually saw 'more' of her through her pictures. She kept trying to ask me out, I didn't want to be mean so I just gave her the busy line everytime. Eventually she just moved on and met another guy.

 

I think if girls like these want to be accepted for who they are, they shouldn't be hiding themselves like that.

Don't blame yourself or feel bad about being a bad guy..things like this happen sometimes.

I agree with this. If she's self-conscious about her body size, and said body size has kept her from getting together with guys in the past, well... that's unfortunate, but does that obligate KMT to become her "pity date"?

 

Of course not. What's being overlooked here is that the way she went about things is misleading. Personally, I'd be kind of pissed off if a girl did that to me. I certainly wouldn't appreciate being manipulated into meeting somebody for a date. If her initial photos were framed in such a way as to hide her true appearance, then she's clearly been this route before. Most likely she's been successful in securing dates a couple of times, knowing that guilt can be a force to be reckoned with.

 

Ladies, be honest: if you met a guy on a dating site who looked like Aaron Eckardt from The Dark Knight, but his photos only showed one side of his face, you met him in person, and saw that the other side of his face was burned away and mangled, wouldn't YOU feel somewhat misled by that?

 

I'm not drawing a comparison between Two-Face and a girl who's overweight. But my point is that misleading somebody in that way into agreeing to a date isn't going to get them anything in most cases, except more rejection.

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If she is about 5' 6"

size 0 2 4 is fit

over 6 is chubby

over 10 is def fat

 

This is a bit of a stretch.

 

Yeah, I guess I'm "def fat" then.

 

Good thing I can't hear it when people laugh about my fat ass behind my back :rolleyes:

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