nopainnogain Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Why do you (or guys) do that? How would you feel if it were your sister that some guy did that to? Seriously.. its about as self-centered as a human being could possibly get. Why is it okay for you to do? You misunderstood me. Ive had girls tell ME to bounce after sex . I dont take it to the heart tho. Ive told a girl to leave once or twice. Because I had to wake up early in the A.M
Walk Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 If we gave you huggie huggie till morning you might thing we want to see you again or something. A ONS is self centred by it's very nature. Those are the rules, if you don't like it play a different game. Hey now... No one showed me the frickin' rule book before I had one. Not like it states on the front door (all chicks tossed at 4am). I had no idea. Did it once. Figured I'd run into the scum of the earth and I didn't want to repeat that experience.
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Hey now... No one showed me the frickin' rule book before I had one. Not like it states on the front door (all chicks tossed at 4am). I had no idea. Did it once. Figured I'd run into the scum of the earth and I didn't want to repeat that experience. Hey we don't have a rule book either. We get drunk we get horny, we want to sleep with someone, it's available, so we go back with them then after it's done it doesn't seem like such a good idea and we feel like crap and we don't care and we really don't want to be around that person so it's goodbye. It happens. You live and learn.
stoopid_guy Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 She's not that fat. I think she's a sexy woman actually. I'd say "cuddly." She's on the large side of cuddly, but her face is more than cute enough to compensate. If she has a sense of humor and a playful nature, she'd definately be sexy. A side note on the 4:00 AM boot: I'd rather just whack off than bed a lady I didn't want to wake up next to in the morning.
Author Green Posted August 21, 2008 Author Posted August 21, 2008 some guy made an LS video on youtube
Angel1111 Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 I can tell shes fat from the pictures. Like I said google the actress Camryn Manheim if you want to see her body type. I feel bad I'm just looking for the best way to let her know i'm no longer interested now that i've seen a picture with her body in it. I mean ignoring her is one way to go, the other is telling her I'm no longer interested even though I already told her I thought she is pretty which her face is... but she kind of tricked me with that first face pic I saw and now that I see the rest of her myspace and her body it became clear what I was dealing with... dare I say it... Undercover Obese She did trick you and she knows it. I think just telling her the truth would be the best thing because then maybe she'll stop doing that to other people. She knows being overweight is a big deal, which is why she tries to hide it, until the point where you feel cornered. I wouldn't put up with that nonsense for one second. She should've been upfront about it from the beginning by posting her fat picture. But she knows she wouldn't have gotten much attention. To me, it's kind of like a woman stuffing her bra - eventually the jig is going to be up, so what's the point in doing it in the first place? Do they enjoy seeing the disappointment on a guy's face? It's all the same thing - misrepresentation. I call unfair on that stuff.
Angel1111 Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 She's not that fat. I think she's a sexy woman actually. Apparently fat is a matter of opinion. I don't think she's sexy at all because she's overweight.
whichwayisup Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Sexy isn't just about weight. It's also someone's energy and how they portray themselves.. *Portray not sure if that's it's spelled. LOL!* Present themselves..That's a better word.
Angel1111 Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Sexy isn't just about weight. It's also someone's energy and how they portray themselves.. *Portray not sure if that's it's spelled. LOL!* Present themselves..That's a better word. That's because you're a female and would like to think that. Most guys don't see it that way - and that's just a fact. The truth is, being overweight is not a natural state for our bodies, so it's not surprising that it's not attractive. Yes, sometimes personality may make up for it but the majority of the tiime, it doesn't. Women need to stop kidding themselves about this.
Jilly Bean Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 I'm just looking for the best way to let her know i'm no longer interested K - I think the best way (and what I do) is to say that you got back together with your ex. Gentlest way to let someone down...
whichwayisup Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 That's because you're a female and would like to think that. Most guys don't see it that way - and that's just a fact. The truth is, being overweight is not a natural state for our bodies, so it's not surprising that it's not attractive. Yes, sometimes personality may make up for it but the majority of the tiime, it doesn't. Women need to stop kidding themselves about this. It has nothing to do with me being female at all. Everyone has different body types they're attracted to. What you feel about larger women, do you feel the same about larger men as well?
almost famous Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Just meet her for coffee once, even if there is no chemistry. She might be a cool friend. Nothing wrong with making friends.
Author Green Posted August 21, 2008 Author Posted August 21, 2008 I think fat on a girl could be attractive, I'm just not attracted to this specific girl. As two seperate posters have said I'm going to go with the my ex has come back into my life. I really barely spoke to this girl. She had a picturless add on craigslist. I sent her a message. She sent me a link to her myspace which was on private so I could only see the profile pic of her face which I knew could be the face attached to an unatractive body. Low and behold when she added me as a friend and I looked at her pics it was. So now I will have to let her know about how my ex and me are getting back togather
whichwayisup Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Give it time. Don't do it right away..That is too obvious. What you can do in the meantime is put her off abit - Talk about your ex, tell her you need to take it slow and that you're just exiting a painful relationship and you're vunerable. Talk about yourself too, make her feel like you're draining her, if you know what I mean.
xpaperxcutx Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 KMT, I think you're a very shallow womanizer. ( seen Shallow Hal?) I mean if you weren't always in need of an ONS, you wouldn't have been on CL to begin with, and you wouldn't have been in this situation.
Lucky_One Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 What's wrong with going out for coffee with her or something? You don't have to marry her - and you could find that she has the most amazing personality that you fall in love with her instantly. it ain't all about the looks, you know. Don't be immediately shallow.
Author Green Posted August 21, 2008 Author Posted August 21, 2008 KMT, I think you're a very shallow womanizer. ( seen Shallow Hal?) I mean if you weren't always in need of an ONS, you wouldn't have been on CL to begin with, and you wouldn't have been in this situation. booo, no I was not looking for a one night stand.
Author Green Posted August 21, 2008 Author Posted August 21, 2008 What's wrong with going out for coffee with her or something? You don't have to marry her - and you could find that she has the most amazing personality that you fall in love with her instantly. it ain't all about the looks, you know. Don't be immediately shallow. I have to have chemistry and part of that is physical attraction
Citizen Erased Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 The correct term is "fat chicks". KMT, just go for the ex story. Don't listen to the negative ninnys, you know what you want. No point in wasting your or her time in having coffee if you don't want it to go anywhere.
Balthazar Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 I saw the actress you mentioned KMT. THat's one big lady! Lots of guys like "a few extra pounds", but that actress is clearly obese!
monkey00 Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 No worries, I've been in the same boat. Girls like those are notorious for just putting up their faces but hiding their bodies. I found one like that on a dating site, when she added me to her facebook I eventually saw 'more' of her through her pictures. She kept trying to ask me out, I didn't want to be mean so I just gave her the busy line everytime. Eventually she just moved on and met another guy. I think if girls like these want to be accepted for who they are, they shouldn't be hiding themselves like that. Don't blame yourself or feel bad about being a bad guy..things like this happen sometimes.
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