Green Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 I was bored/horney last night and sent some mesages to girls looking for guys to date on CL. I got a response from a girl who gave me a link to her Myspace page, and shes pretty. But then after she accepts my friend request I see she has a fat body, actualy even a some what fat face. But u couldnt tell, I've already said she was pretty and asked for her number and got it... now I feel bad about being like oh geez sorry. They need to put that BBW thing in (big beutiful woman) so I can avoid it. Don't get me wrong I have found heavier women attractive in the past its just very rare and I don't really think I feel anything for this person based on the picture other then the profile pic where u see no body.
whichwayisup Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 How big is she? Everyone's idea of what fat is different..
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Well you could always go out and meet someone - problem solved, until you see them without makeup of course.
Author Green Posted August 21, 2008 Author Posted August 21, 2008 if you google the actress Camryn Manheim you'll get the picture.
nopainnogain Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 How big is she?. Probably big enough for her pic to fall off the wall:eek:
Author Green Posted August 21, 2008 Author Posted August 21, 2008 Well you could always go out and meet someone - problem solved, until you see them without makeup of course. Well no duh, I do go out and meet people, but then you encounter different kinds of fat girl situations. This is about a girl I met on the internet yesterday who is fat. I met all but one of the girls I've dated in person first.
stoopid_guy Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 "Fat" is a very subjective word. Maybe she should give her measurements and weight?
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Well no duh, I do go out and meet people, but then you encounter different kinds of fat girl situations. This is about a girl I met on the internet yesterday who is fat. I met all but one of the girls I've dated in person first. I can't say I've ever encountered a "fat girl situation", what's one of those?
Author Green Posted August 21, 2008 Author Posted August 21, 2008 "Fat" is a very subjective word. Maybe she should give her measurements and weight? I can tell shes fat from the pictures. Like I said google the actress Camryn Manheim if you want to see her body type. I feel bad I'm just looking for the best way to let her know i'm no longer interested now that i've seen a picture with her body in it. I mean ignoring her is one way to go, the other is telling her I'm no longer interested even though I already told her I thought she is pretty which her face is... but she kind of tricked me with that first face pic I saw and now that I see the rest of her myspace and her body it became clear what I was dealing with... dare I say it... Undercover Obese
Author Green Posted August 21, 2008 Author Posted August 21, 2008 I can't say I've ever encountered a "fat girl situation", what's one of those? well there are an infinite number of fat girl situations just use your imagination... though this is really of the topic of my thread. Theres the situation where you start talking to one girl and she brings over the friend she really wants you to meet and ta da shes fat... u know stuff like that can happen when you go out or at a party or what ever. Any ways I'm really just trying to figure out the most tactful way to let this girl down for now I'm going to ignore her unless people give me something better
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 well yeah just don't respond i'm sure she'll get over it
Author Green Posted August 21, 2008 Author Posted August 21, 2008 well yeah just don't respond i'm sure she'll get over it No she never will, I already laid on some of the charm because her profile pic was cute... if only I had realised she was fat sooner she'd have a chance
Walk Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Well.. why not keep her as a friend? Message her a couple times about borin stuff (weather, politics, basketball haha). I know this is rude sounding, but having a bigger bodied woman on your friends list might give the impression that you are actually well-rounded enough to appreciate a woman's personality. It could give you credibility when you tell women you're looking for someone who's got a great personality. Usually all I hear when a guy says that (without factual evidence to back it up) is "I'm looking for a great body". Then I think of him as 'walking penis' with no attributes I desire.
reservoirdog1 Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Here's the best way. Tell her that, very shortly after you chatted with her, you got an email from your recently ex-GF, who you thought things were over with, and who wants to meet and talk about the relationship, and that it looks like things might NOT be over. Then tell "Camryn" that it would be unfair of you to lead her on in those circumstances, and that you hope she understands. She'll probably understand. If she doesn't, or if she gets weird or accuses you of being turned off by her pictures, THEN ignore her.
Author Green Posted August 21, 2008 Author Posted August 21, 2008 Here's the best way. Tell her that, very shortly after you chatted with her, you got an email from your recently ex-GF, who you thought things were over with, and who wants to meet and talk about the relationship, and that it looks like things might NOT be over. Then tell "Camryn" that it would be unfair of you to lead her on in those circumstances, and that you hope she understands. She'll probably understand. If she doesn't, or if she gets weird or accuses you of being turned off by her pictures, THEN ignore her. Its a pretty lame idea but I actualy like it
Author Green Posted August 21, 2008 Author Posted August 21, 2008 Well.. why not keep her as a friend? Message her a couple times about borin stuff (weather, politics, basketball haha). I know this is rude sounding, but having a bigger bodied woman on your friends list might give the impression that you are actually well-rounded enough to appreciate a woman's personality. It could give you credibility when you tell women you're looking for someone who's got a great personality. Usually all I hear when a guy says that (without factual evidence to back it up) is "I'm looking for a great body". Then I think of him as 'walking penis' with no attributes I desire. I'm after more then just a body but this girl is pretty fat and thats unattractive. Cant I be after a girl with a good soul and a good body... the answer is yes, just in case you were going to say no you cock magnet
reservoirdog1 Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Its a pretty lame idea but I actualy like it True, but if you're looking for tactful, it's the best way out. You've made it about yourself and not her, and you've avoided hurting her ego. All she's left with is a little disappointment.
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 No she never will, I already laid on some of the charm because her profile pic was cute... if only I had realised she was fat sooner she'd have a chance Yeah she will. I've booted out girls at 4am they always get over it. She hasn't even met you, I'm sure she hasn't written home to mom just yet, maybe she thinks you're a chump, who knows.
Walk Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 I've booted out girls at 4am they always get over it. wow. I once had a guy kick me out immediately afterward, and it really did a number on me. I was nice enough to sleep with the guy, and he was an a-hole who needed me out before the light o' day shone unforgivingly on his little wee-wee. What type of boy are you to do that to someone?
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 wow. I once had a guy kick me out immediately afterward, and it really did a number on me. I was nice enough to sleep with the guy, and he was an a-hole who needed me out before the light o' day shone unforgivingly on his little wee-wee. What type of boy are you to do that to someone? A drunk one that wanted to get to sleep.
nopainnogain Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Ive had girls tell to bounce after sex. But its all gravy tho. I already got what I wanted:D
whichwayisup Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Camryn Manheim She's not that fat. I think she's a sexy woman actually.
Walk Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Ive had girls tell to bounce after sex. But its all gravy tho. I already got what I wanted:D Why do you (or guys) do that? How would you feel if it were your sister that some guy did that to? Seriously.. its about as self-centered as a human being could possibly get. Why is it okay for you to do?
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Why do you (or guys) do that? How would you feel if it were your sister that some guy did that to? Seriously.. its about as self-centered as a human being could possibly get. Why is it okay for you to do? If we gave you huggie huggie till morning you might thing we want to see you again or something. A ONS is self centred by it's very nature. Those are the rules, if you don't like it play a different game.
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