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fantasizing about going back after one night stand

blackwidow290

By blackwidow290
in Cheating, Flirting, and Jealousy

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blackwidow290 Established Member

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is it crazy or rude to go back to someone u had a one night stand with? I did so with a really handsome guy, who was polite, caring, and detail-oriented. i.e. in the morning he asked how my friend got home at night after I left with him.

The sex was great, as in all night long and even hotter in the morning. After we stayed in bed and cuddled, he started to ask lots of questions, but I dont know why, I was unable to open up or to even make sense. I felt vulnerable and also it was bad timing as I was going away to study abroad for 2 months. There seemed to be a lot of attraction and potential compatibility so obviously it haunts my fantasies. Should I try going back there after 3 months now - if hes taken w.e... to a stranger. I think it would be hot. what do u guys think?

 

oh also, the reason for having lost contact is that I didnt give him my number. He asked and I stupidly said that I dont remember. hah.

You'reasian Established Member

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It can't hurt to contact him if you are interested. If he's seeing someone, then respect his relationship and settle with being his friend. Can't hurt.

 

Good luck!

verve Established Member

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Seems like your'e idealising him a lot. Remember you know NOTHING about this guy, you've just got a collection of hazy memories which are no doubt clouded by the alcohol you would have consumed.

 

It is probably more hassle than its worth and you will no doubt find out he's not who you think he is.

Javelin Established Member

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It can't hurt to contact him if you are interested. If he's seeing someone, then respect his relationship and settle with being his friend. Can't hurt.

 

Good luck!

 

If he is in a relationship, I agree with everything up until the, 'friend' part.

 

They were never friends and with her fantasizing about him, that would be dangerous for his current relationship, if there is one.

 

I would suggest if he is in a relationship, just leave him alone.

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blackwidow290 Established Member

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thankk you for the reply. I now agree with verve that some fantasies are best left as such.

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