Ruby Slippers Posted August 22, 2008 Posted August 22, 2008 It sounds to me like there is something bothering you. Maybe instead of 60 text messages a day, what you really want is one phone call. To me, 100 text messages do not amount to 10 minutes on the phone. As for asking what you need, you can do it nicely and in a positive way. "Hey, Honey, I really love the days when we get to talk on the phone instead of text message. Would you be willing to call instead of text more often?"
Author Tryng2Trust08 Posted August 22, 2008 Author Posted August 22, 2008 It sounds to me like there is something bothering you. Maybe instead of 60 text messages a day, what you really want is one phone call. To me, 100 text messages do not amount to 10 minutes on the phone. As for asking what you need, you can do it nicely and in a positive way. "Hey, Honey, I really love the days when we get to talk on the phone instead of text message. Would you be willing to call instead of text more often?" Yeah, he has called me every day this week, except for one night...The text messaging is just in addition to the phone calls. I have chilled out and things are going great, I feel more at ease. And he even said we could talk on the phone more instead of text because texting gets annoying.
confused..... Posted August 24, 2008 Posted August 24, 2008 Wow this is great. As someone who was (hopes to be back in the relationship) he is into you and is willing to take everything as it comes. DO NOT let him go. Take everyday as it comes and work on things together. Don't find reasons to push him away. Especially when he is not giving you any reason to!
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