bigmoney9595 Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 I was recently dumped by my GF, we had been fighting and she really hurt me. Being angry and very hurt I went back and said somthings that are not what I think or feel in my head and heart. I only said it becasue I knew it would get to her (what her ex-husband says to her - who's a readl *********), but never dreamed it would be this bad. I truly don't feel or beleive the things I said, but words - like bullets can't be taken back. She is my world, my love, and now she is gone... Im not saying I was right, I'm a jerk and take full responsibility for my actions. She doesn't believe me when I tell her I didn't mean them and says she cannot trust me anymore... not like i'm not willing to work to earn her trust or be knees for fogiveness. I'd do anything...just don't know what to do.. I've NEVER been so upset about a break-up before, she is true love. I may be being a real wussie, but I don't care the only thing that means anything to me I lost... yes Im a jerk but I am a good person that is human than made a huge mistake...
Tryng2Trust08 Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 I don't know if there's anything to do to get her back, it sounds like u may have said many harsh things that hurt her. Or maybe this wasn't the first time you did this to her. I know guys and girls both made mistakes, say things they shouldn't say, I have done this many times. I would suggest talking to her, apologizing, asking her if there's anything you can do to get her to trust you and back together because she means the world to you. If she says no, then you need to cut your losses and move on, it wasn't meant to be. You need to heal and move on and learn from what happened between you guys. If she can't accept you back, just move on, someone else may be better for you, or maybe no one at all.
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