Arsenic_Child Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 O.k. heres the story, my girlfriend broke up with me because of trust issues 3 weeks ago. And they were pretty serious trust issues go read my last post "I Want to make this work" for details. Anyway last night she texted me drunk. and kept telling me she didn't want to be alone as in sleep alone. i told her I'm sorry and that she was with her friends so she didnt have to sleep alone She didn't respond for about 10 mins, but instead AIMs me and tells me that shes coming over to sleep. i insisted this was a bad idea and urged her not to come because she was drunk and didn't want her driving. she said she was coming either way because it was either my house or her house (mine was closer) then quickly signed off. She showed up at my house like 20 mins later still wasted and drove... I told her that i was willing to sleep on the couch and she can have my bed, but she insisted i would lay with her in the bed. she told me that "just sleep together no hooking up" and that was fine because i just wanted to lay with her and didn't expect to hook up because she was drunk. I laid in my bed i wanted to hold her so bad but i couldn't then out of no were she grabs me to cuddle with her and i was kinda resisting and she told me "Hold me" so i did, we fall asleep in each others arms. she work up this morning and we laid in bed for 20 mins and she was still sober and seemed ok with holding me... what do you guys think this could mean?
4dviceJunki3 Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 Well, a drunken mistake or the truth came out while she was drunk and she came to realization that she wants to be with you. I would say approach this with caution. Red flag on her but just take it slow. Don't push it any more than what happened last night and this morning. Let her be on her way and see where it goes to. It seems as if you have the upper-hand now but don't be pushy and take advantage of it. Just understand that you did the right thing by trying to back out of a little situation that occurred, and she kept pushing and it turned out to be just okay. Now, you still need to be the smarter and better person and back off a bit again and see if she keeps pushing forward. If she does, then she may want to be with you and you can then maybe approach it with orange caution flags hehe! =)
nowhereman82 Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 4dviceJunki3 pretty much hit it on the head. Kudos for not sleeping with her.
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