lonelysoulja Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 what should i do? here's the story: i met this great girl and have gone out with her a few times. so last night, she told me that I was giving her "friend vibes" . i told her she was mistaken, i was just shy and that i wanted more than that. she seemed happy about that...confided to me that she thought i was "out of her league"...then we got close, so all's good right? well then i asked to walk her home, she gladly accepted, so we walked, and on the way home, she's like you know ........ "i'm thinking friends" ........ "can we be friends?" "i'm like okay, i'm disappointed but sure, i kind of understood her reasoning" (she said she would be going away in a year, needed to focus on her masters in school, etc.) and that's when we finally touched, she held my arm. i felt a tingle through my body.....and she's like "now we're close after we're friends. i'm so messed up" ... so what do i from here?
nopainnogain Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 and that's when we finally touched, she held my arm. i felt a tingle through my body..... .......lol..... Next time you are with her steal a kiss. See what she does. She probably wants a FWB. More action less talking.
Author lonelysoulja Posted August 18, 2008 Author Posted August 18, 2008 I'm not sure. She's seems so inexperienced, as I am. I think she's worried about getting hurt or hurting me... She invited me to her house warming sept and later texted me saying I was the hottest kindest guy she's met. I reallly like her. Should I still pursue?
JohnnyBlaze Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 Do you want to be just friends? If not, then yes, continue to pursue! If you're making headway even after being pegged as a friend, there's no reason to call off the dogs now. NPNG is right; steal a kiss. See what happens. At worst, she gets mad at you, you don't talk for a week or so, and you go back to being friends. No permanent damage done. At best, you get her past some inner hurdle of hers and move things along!
Tryng2Trust08 Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 Why don't you just ask her what is up? If you like her, and she invited you over and want to go, then go. When she says that she will be moving in a year and will be busy pursuing a Masters program, what do you say to her? I guess im Im confused on her comment to you? But I would just ask her what is up and let her know you are definately into her for more than friends.
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