SnowWhite924 Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 Just wanted to give you an update. Saturday I was missing my exMM terribly but I have to say, I stuck it out with NC and today, I am feeling stronger than ever!!! Missing and longing for him stinks and it's hard to get through that and stick with NC but after it's done, the missing and longing fades and here I am, feeling powerful!!! For those of you who have your days of sadness and longing, try to stick it out with NC. It's just a withdrawal symptom we have to get through and not give into. This is Day 19 of NC and I'm starting to sing that song WildSoul gave me once. What was it? "I feel good". Hope you all 'feel good' too!!
Meaplus3 Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 Just wanted to give you an update. Saturday I was missing my exMM terribly but I have to say, I stuck it out with NC and today, I am feeling stronger than ever!!! Missing and longing for him stinks and it's hard to get through that and stick with NC but after it's done, the missing and longing fades and here I am, feeling powerful!!! For those of you who have your days of sadness and longing, try to stick it out with NC. It's just a withdrawal symptom we have to get through and not give into. This is Day 19 of NC and I'm starting to sing that song WildSoul gave me once. What was it? "I feel good". Hope you all 'feel good' too!! Good for you! Keep up the good work..you can do it! AP:)
wildsoul Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 I'm so happy to read that you're feeling better now! Thanks for the inspiration to go all the way thru withdrawals, too.
Author SnowWhite924 Posted August 18, 2008 Author Posted August 18, 2008 WildSoul, you can do it too!! We'll get through this together. Keep moving forward. 'I feel good'... I heard that song today and I was dancing!!
jj33 Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 Congrats. I got an email from xMM today. It was short pleasant and attempting to open up a dialogue. And am proud to say that for the first time ever I did not reply. Breaks my heart when he is just trying to be friends, but I know its for the best. If I reply it will turn into the usual chat as and when he needs a fix of me and nothing will change for me. One more step in the right direction.
mistresswchildren Posted August 19, 2008 Posted August 19, 2008 Snow, You will have more ups and downs. I am just warning you! Just remember how you feel right now, and KNOW that you can do this. Ups and downs make up an A. I don't know about you, but I would prefer an even keel. Don't get me wrong, all relationships have their share of ups and downs, but As as a rule have the highest highs and the lowest lows. As for me, I want someone who is steadfast. That you will never get from a MM/MW (or at least typically).
crystal_lostheart Posted August 19, 2008 Posted August 19, 2008 Great to hear SW - it's gives strength to others to hear that doing NC and sticking to it gives you that sense of power - and most importantly regaining control of your life.... :):)
Lyssa Posted August 19, 2008 Posted August 19, 2008 That's good news, SW! Keep it up and in no time, NC will be easy-peasey-chocolate-squeezy!
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