nyr81 Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 So i went out to the movies with this girl after finally trying to take her out for like three weeks. He had been communicating via text and aim for a while. during our texts and aim she has been very open about herself and inquired alot about me. So finally took her out to the movies. Bought her some chocolates. Made my move to hold her hand at the movie and she took it. And I noticed she was always concerned that I might be hurting myself leaning into the armrest. Anyways, after the movies she asked me to call her tomorrow. Then when I got home I received a text from her saying thank you, that she had a good time tonight, and thanked me for the candy. So i called her the next day because she asked me. talked for about 2 hours. the end of which I asked her if I could take her out again next weekend which she said sounds good. Sorry for the long post but it seems this relationship is heading in the right direction even though it was just one date. I feel though we have gotten to know each other alot over the past three weeks through text and aim. My question is this whole calling thing. They always say dont call the next day but she asked me so i did. So how should i proceed from here? Do i call her, text her today? Wait a day? I dont want to seem anxious but then again I dont want to push her away. Any input from the girls out there?
Author nyr81 Posted August 18, 2008 Author Posted August 18, 2008 Should I wait until like wednesday to call maybe?
Author nyr81 Posted August 21, 2008 Author Posted August 21, 2008 just a little update. since the movie date we've been chatting on text and aim. I did called her today to ask her if she wanted to go for some ice cream, (now she hurt herself so she can't really eat) so of course she said she couldnt but she did invite me to come over to her house. So we hang out for a few hours. When I was about to leave i asked her about going to the beach on saturday but she said she might be goin with friends. now when we spoke about doing something this coming weekend last sunday she said sounds good. Now when i did leave i hugged her and she rubbed my stomach. so i'm kinda confused. first date went really well. do you think she's lost interest. Then again her rubbing me when i left was a good sign i would think. Wouldnt do that to just a friend right? looking for advice from the ladies here about what to do? play it cool?
Tryng2Trust08 Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 If a girl wants to hang out with you she will....if she is going to the beach with friends on Sat., thats kool, but she should give you another available day she can hang out. Just play it kool, ask her out, call her text her....its not too complicated. If she says no to hanging out, move on.
nopainnogain Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 If she agreed to go out and you set a date wait till the night before to call her. Just to confirm. Sounds like your being a bit pushy.You already asked her out like 3 times in a 1 week period. Dont let her think you are needy and desperate.
Shygirl15 Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Sorry, I didn't see the first time you posted. I hope you didn't mess up the calling thing; my advise would have been to call her at least once a day just to make sure you hold her interest in you. Anyway, I would encourage you not to be afraid of showing you like her. If the feeling is mutual, she'll appreciate knowing that. Don't calculate and analyze how to do each and everything. Playing cool is not always cool, and she may interpret that perhaps you're not that into her. How old are you guys? You gave her candy then offered to go for ice cream?? Don't get me wrong, it's cute though.
Shygirl15 Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Sounds like your being a bit pushy.You already asked her out like 3 times in a 1 week period. Dont let her think you are needy and desperate. She may just be playing hard to get a lil bit.. you know how girls can be. The rubbing stomach thing was a good sign, though..
nopainnogain Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 Now if she can rub your stomach and pat your head at the same time shes a keeper;)
Author nyr81 Posted August 21, 2008 Author Posted August 21, 2008 shygirl..we're in our twenties..she is injured right now and she's limited in what she can do thats all. we havent spoken on the phone everyday but we are texting and/or conversing online everyday.
nopainnogain Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 She may just be playing hard to get a lil bit.. you know how girls can be. .. Yes. Your a good example lol I want to ask you something and I cant PM . Whats up with that:confused:
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