WiseOne1 Posted August 27, 2008 Posted August 27, 2008 What is my next move from here? We are still talking as friends and stuff, not much as she is clearly upset about her and her rebound. I want to be there for her as a friend at least. I need advice and help, I don't think I could take her back straight away after this but guys I really do love her Right give it time, you need to play this cool, and dont ask any questions about the past relationship what so ever. You need to flirt and let her know you interested in her still. Most people would say you should go NC and become cold turkey, but In this case I dont think that would be smart. Another thing is people are rarely ever effected by rebounds. He might have had gotten what he wanted and took off once he got it, that could be it, but I wouldnt ask her about that if I were you, due to it might have you feeling resentment and you might not want her back. Hey its a male ego thing. Its all of or nothing, i've been through this sistuation before. So if she gets another BF after the rebound,its over, you wanna avoid that at all cost. The next BF she gets must be you. Trust me! If she gets another BF it wont be a rebound.
Author Aleeed Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 Right give it time, you need to play this cool, and dont ask any questions about the past relationship what so ever. You need to flirt and let her know you interested in her still. Most people would say you should go NC and become cold turkey, but In this case I dont think that would be smart. Another thing is people are rarely ever effected by rebounds. He might have had gotten what he wanted and took off once he got it, that could be it, but I wouldnt ask her about that if I were you, due to it might have you feeling resentment and you might not want her back. Hey its a male ego thing. Its all of or nothing, i've been through this sistuation before. So if she gets another BF after the rebound,its over, you wanna avoid that at all cost. The next BF she gets must be you. Trust me! If she gets another BF it wont be a rebound. So play it cool, next time I speak to her should I just ask her how her day was etc, but slightly flirt? Its rather confusing, she seems really cut up about her "rebound" she was with him 4 days! She needs time to clear her head, shes going away for the weekend, I'll keep in contact, drop her a text one time over the weekend asking how her weekend is going or something, any other advice?
WiseOne1 Posted August 28, 2008 Posted August 28, 2008 Yea, you only have this one chance, so even she stays single or you get back together. You wanna play it cool, but you might not wanna be too cold, the more she talks to you the more you talk to her. But a 4 day rebound is odd.
Author Aleeed Posted August 28, 2008 Author Posted August 28, 2008 Yea, you only have this one chance, so even she stays single or you get back together. You wanna play it cool, but you might not wanna be too cold, the more she talks to you the more you talk to her. But a 4 day rebound is odd. I'll try talk to her a lot, show her "what shes missing" haha. I don't think its odd, I think its quite scary. I really don't know but if this is going to be sorted out it needs to be done now.
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