how would you feel if you heard your friend slept with your gf before you two met?

[loveinlife]

My friend just called me up earlier and told me to watch out for the girl and not to fall too hard. He told me that he slept with her before we both started dating and that she is not worthy of trust.

 

How would you react to this situation?

 

what do you think is on my friends mind?

[Davey McG]

I would guess he's trying to look out for you. Ask him why she isn't trustworthy. I would listen to my friend over a new girlfriend.

[roghornio]

Or maybe he still likes her...

[nowhereman82]

Tough call honestly.....need to ask him for specifics...maybe they just weren't compatible or maybe she is truly a psycho hose beast.

[BackonTrack]

Listen to your friend.

Don't fall to hard for this girl, take everything she says with a grain of salt.

 

He went out of his way to contact you & warn you.

[reservoirdog1]

Hang on... your friend said that she's not trustworthy. Did he say anything else to back this up, other than the fact that she slept with him BEFORE you started dating her?

 

If that's all he said, then who cares that she slept with him before she got together with you? That doesn't make her untrustworthy.

 

Other things about her may, however.

[loveinlife]

Hang on... your friend said that she's not trustworthy. Did he say anything else to back this up, other than the fact that she slept with him BEFORE you started dating her?

 

If that's all he said, then who cares that she slept with him before she got together with you? That doesn't make her untrustworthy.

 

Other things about her may, however.

 

I agree with you. from my speculations and from everyone else ppl are saying she is not a settled. sigh

[0hpenelope]

My friend just called me up earlier and told me to watch out for the girl and not to fall too hard. He told me that he slept with her before we both started dating and that she is not worthy of trust.

 

How would you react to this situation?

 

what do you think is on my friends mind?

 

I won't deny this: I'd believe my friend first.

 

Come to think of it, I won't even touch anyone who's had sexual relations with any of my friends.

 

But if my friend tells me one thing and I hear from mutual acquaintances "Hey, since when did [my friend] and [the one to avoid] start dating?" That... that is an entirely different story.

[loveinlife]

I won't deny this: I'd believe my friend first.

 

Come to think of it, I won't even touch anyone who's had sexual relations with any of my friends.

 

But if my friend tells me one thing and I hear from mutual acquaintances "Hey, since when did [my friend] and [the one to avoid] start dating?" That... that is an entirely different story.

 

I didnt even know that they slept together until the call last night. It was a one time thing before i met her and there was no relationship involved. After i heard about it and still today, i felt that feeling too. I wanted to throw up.