Mydish1 Posted August 17, 2008 Posted August 17, 2008 So I went on what I thought was supposed to be a date, which just turned into into short chatter with a girl. Maybe it's just bad judgment on my part to pursue a religious girl. We were supposed to hangout at the park today after she got out of church. Instead we wound up just hanging around there for a short while talking as she wanted to go back in for the next sermon. I know she's going through a rough patch in her life right now, she lost her passport and has to get a new one, she's homesick, and she hasn't decided yet if she's going to stay or leave the US. When we were talking, she told me she's very shy around people...which I find hard to believe because when I see her at work she's very friendly, bubbly, and touch feely with people, especially her guy co-workers...but she told me they're like family to her. However there were a couple of times in the past where I spoke too fast for her and she excused herself because she didn't understand. What I found to be a little rude was she picked up the phone to answer a call and on occasion looked at the phone as if expecting a call or checking the time. Though I don't know if it was because she was nervous around me or her lack of interest. The last two times I was at her job, every time she walks pass me we always make great EC with a smile. At her job, usually when I show up she comes over and greets me. And then when we parted, she kind of gave me a half lip kiss. Before I write her off completely, what do you guys think?
refurb Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 Write her off, she doesn't sound interested at all. RF
Prodigal Princess Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 She's patently not interested in you. Get out now and don't pursue her any further, while you still have a little dignity intact.
brotherbe1985 Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 I`ve had a similair problem before. It is difficult with girls from outter countries, they are difficult to read. If you really like this girl, hang around for a lil while longer, stay friends and move slowly. My girl showed interest on and off and sometimes wouldn`t even say good bye after finishin work and would spend time talking about other guys she`s interested in. In the end I told her how I felt as I just wasn`t happy around her anymore and wanted to end the friendship and then she told me she how she`s interested in me and just wasn`t sure how to go about it which was a complete surprise. Been dating happily since.
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