confusedgirl85 Posted August 17, 2008 Posted August 17, 2008 I met this guy at work, 3 days later he asked me to a movie, we now have known each other for a month, and in this time we've been out on several dates, but nothing ever happens, not even hand holding, a kiss, nothing..i like him for sure, i think he likes me too because he has asked me out all those times and we talk on the phone for hours every day... so what can i do to make things move on?
JoeNewbie Posted August 17, 2008 Posted August 17, 2008 Well, why don't you take matters in your own hands and gear it up?
carhill Posted August 17, 2008 Posted August 17, 2008 Some history... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t149191/ I still think it's ill-advised to fish in the company pond, even if this guy is truly single
Author confusedgirl85 Posted August 17, 2008 Author Posted August 17, 2008 Some history... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t149191/ I still think it's ill-advised to fish in the company pond, even if this guy is truly single Nooooooo completely different, that one was my old married boss flirting with me, this is a single guy, my age, and we met and hit it off, but nothing happens, we just hang out and talk on the phone, etc. Thats it.
carhill Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 I know it's a different guy and he's single. Still company pond. Probably better to hang out for now. I'll assume he's not a supervisor. If he's interested in you romantically, he needs to take some action in that regard. Otherwise, you'll forever be frustrated. Sharing past experiences helps with perspective. It helps the respondents understand you.
almost famous Posted August 18, 2008 Posted August 18, 2008 Personally I don't think twice about dating someone at work. You never know where love can find you and if it's work, then it's at work. Also coworkers in your field would tend to have similarities of education and background.
Author confusedgirl85 Posted August 20, 2008 Author Posted August 20, 2008 Oh sorry, i forgot to put that, i dont work there anymore, i met him when i did, but now im in another place so no stress about dating co workers .... but these couple of days we have talked on the phone for hours, he even offered to bring me some lunch today, but he called me saying that he wouldnt be able to come by... but i mean a man looking for just friendship dont do that, and its not like i shut him down, he asks me out and i say yes, we talk a lot, share some of our problems, etc... Wish i knew what is going through his mind....
almost famous Posted August 20, 2008 Posted August 20, 2008 He's just not that into you. He cancelled bringing you lunch at work. Just not into you. Moveon.
sumdude Posted August 20, 2008 Posted August 20, 2008 Kiss him.. you'll get an answer there. Either he's not into you that way OR he's shy about making the move.
Author confusedgirl85 Posted August 31, 2008 Author Posted August 31, 2008 We are now a couple!! So hope it all goes great....
paddington bear Posted August 31, 2008 Posted August 31, 2008 Yay! A positive ending to one of the 'what the hell is going on' situations posted here. So, did he finally make a move, or did you? Do tell. There are people here (i.e. me) who need to know!
Author confusedgirl85 Posted September 3, 2008 Author Posted September 3, 2008 Yay! A positive ending to one of the 'what the hell is going on' situations posted here. So, did he finally make a move, or did you? Do tell. There are people here (i.e. me) who need to know! Last friday we went out to see a play and then dinner, and out of no where he asked me for how long have we known each other y told him about a month and 1/2, and then he said that he really liked me, and that if i wanted to be his girlfriend? So i told him that i liked him too and yes i want to be ur gf... so we are now a couple.. for 3 days!!! Awwwwww... he is sooooo nice, he passed by my work today to give me a rose! He is great and im happy and he is happy too!
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