Katers Posted August 17, 2008 Posted August 17, 2008 Ok so I am so confused on what to do. Here is my story.... I have broken up with my ex 5 months ago. We have recently started talking again and hanging out for about a month. I can tell he still has feelings and is still attached. But I have started talking with his best friend over the phone more and we have decided to do the friends with benefits thing. The only problem is we have to keep it a secret from everyone. Exspecially my ex! The main point I forgot to mention why it is a fwb is because him nor I want a commitment to a relationship at this time. Is this a good or bad thing that I have gotten myself into. Please help!
JoeNewbie Posted August 17, 2008 Posted August 17, 2008 We have recently started talking again and hanging out for about a month. I can tell he still has feelings and is still attached. So why do you even talk to him? Can't you leave him alone for his own good? Do you need attention that badly? But I have started talking with his best friend over the phone more and we have decided to do the friends with benefits thing. The only problem is we have to keep it a secret from everyone. Exspecially my ex! The main point I forgot to mention why it is a fwb is because him nor I want a commitment to a relationship at this time. Is this a good or bad thing that I have gotten myself into. Please help! Are you really questioning whether this is a good or bad thing to do? I bet you enjoy the secrecy around all of this. You enjoy seeing your ex in pain and you get excited having sex behind his back knowing it would hurt him if he ever found out. I say leave your ex alone, don't hang out with him.
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