mas21 Posted August 17, 2008 Posted August 17, 2008 alright, just tell me why an ex that i havnt seen in a while( probably 2 years) slash broke up with him 4 years ago before i left for college and hurt will not meet up with me, but will text me if i text him. He lives with his new girlfriend and i want to have a friendship with him since i moved home.. but why will he text but not meet up once to catch up?? Am i blind to the obvious, because it doesnt make sense to me.
D-Lish Posted August 17, 2008 Posted August 17, 2008 alright, just tell me why an ex that i havnt seen in a while( probably 2 years) slash broke up with him 4 years ago before i left for college and hurt will not meet up with me, but will text me if i text him. He lives with his new girlfriend and i want to have a friendship with him since i moved home.. but why will he text but not meet up once to catch up?? Am i blind to the obvious, because it doesnt make sense to me. The obvious is that he has a gf that he lives with... Wanting to remain friends with him is your wish... it may not be his gf's wish.
Author mas21 Posted August 17, 2008 Author Posted August 17, 2008 im aware of this and when he said he would meet up with me a couple months ago, i asked if she knew and it was ok with her because im not that kind of girl at all... i dont want to hurt anyone.. my question has less ot do with her but why he wouldnt just be like leave me alone if i was bothering him or what not... his friend told me about his gf, not him.. which is strange ot me.. i had no idea for half the time we were talking.
D-Lish Posted August 17, 2008 Posted August 17, 2008 im aware of this and when he said he would meet up with me a couple months ago, i asked if she knew and it was ok with her because im not that kind of girl at all... i dont want to hurt anyone.. my question has less ot do with her but why he wouldnt just be like leave me alone if i was bothering him or what not... his friend told me about his gf, not him.. which is strange ot me.. i had no idea for half the time we were talking. I think what I am trying to say is that you obviously still hold a special place in his heart. He's probably still quite vulnerable to you... But- if your motives only point to a friendship, I don't think it's a good idea. He's trying to move on, he's moved in with someone else... but probably still carries a torch for you if he answers your texts and keeps it hidden he has a gf he lives with. I think it's best to find new friends to hang out with if you've just moved back and are trying to branch out. You coming back into his life WILL complicate his current realtionship... If you truly care about him, I'd have to say you should leave him be.
Author mas21 Posted August 17, 2008 Author Posted August 17, 2008 thank you, i think part of me thought this but denied it and know that our talking gets us both nowhere, i just couldnt understand or denied the reasoning for him talking to me but not wanting to hang out once. I will try my best to leave him alone because i would never want to be in that situation that his gf would feel like if she knew.. i doubt she does considering his friend told me and not him.
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