adm_whoop Posted August 16, 2008 Posted August 16, 2008 We stopped talking 3 weeks ago. I didn't know why. I was hurt and confused. I ran into his mom and she asked me what was going on between us and I told her that I didn't know. I was so upset that I just busted out crying. I told her what all I thought was wrong between us and that I had read on myspace that he had went out the night before and that I thought he had spent the night with someone. Stupid me!!! She confronted him about it. We of course had a confrontation about it and he told me how much he missed me and that I had ruined everything because he couldn't believe how I had downed him to his mom. I love him. I told her everything that was on my mind in between sobs and I hate that I did it. If I could take it back I would. He later sent me a text that said he hated that it had come to this but for me to never text or call him again. That maybe me and his mom could be friends. I sent him a text that said I would never talk to anyone that he knows again and that he could hate me forever. I changed my number that day!!! I feel utterly sad about it. I didn't mean for any of this to happen...
wareagle Posted August 16, 2008 Posted August 16, 2008 Don't beat yourself up! You didn't do anything wrong! Sounds like to me he has a guilty concious!
JooLee Posted August 17, 2008 Posted August 17, 2008 i dont think you did anything wrong. you're in a vulnerable state and you just really need to find out closure for yourself and your moment of desperateness made you to spill out to his mother. sometimes things like these just happens but there is nothing you can do. it is so mean of him to say you ruined everything. it wasnt you. it was him that started the whole commotion and if he doesnt realise that he is jus being immature. it takes two for things to become this big. and as for him saying he wants nothing to do with you. i know its hard, but you have to be strong and learn to go through the days without him. it hurts so bad i know, im in the same situation as you- but i assure you it gets better. perharps after a long period of time, you two can be friends again... if you want to. focus on yourself- make yourself happy. that is the important thing now. not someone who doesnt bother showing some respect to you. all the best dear
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