Have you ever been turned down for a first date but eventually dated that person?

[JoeNewbie]

Please share your story whether you were on the asking or receiving end.

 

I guess this will settle the current debate once and for all.

 

I have a few stories to share on this but will wait for everyone's feedback.

[D-Jam]

No. Usually a rejection, be it honest or lying is my message to move on.

 

I have had several women reject me in the past because they wanted to chase "badder" guys. These same women came back years later pushing strollers and heads full of baggage, claiming how they always loved me and want to be with me now.

 

Cyeah right.

 

To me, a no means no...move on. It doesn't mean to try harder or wait and see if she changes her mind.

[Touche]

I rejected my husband when he asked for my number. But then he gave me his card and about a week later I changed my mind and called him. We went out the night I called him and haven't been apart since then.

 

That was almost 14 years ago.