annsumm Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 Hi all I posted yesterday because I had concerns about my current partner of 4 months and our exclusivity since he is using online dating. Anyway, I took it a step further as I needed to know that he wasn't just playing at chatting and my friend, who has a profile on the dating site, messaged him. He got very naughty with her and ended up sending her a pic of his below 'bits' after asking her for a pic of her boobs !! I am devastated and think I need to end the relationship before I get any further emotionally involved ( i already am). We have slept together and I really did think this was the real deal.........gutted. :-( What do y'all think ?
Jilly Bean Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 I think I'm surprised a Brit says, "y'all". But, beyond that - do you even need to solicit answers for this? I can't imagine anyone will tell you to continue dating him.
Author annsumm Posted August 15, 2008 Author Posted August 15, 2008 Ha yeah I t hink we are becoming less 'british' every day !! I know what i should do, would love to bow out of this in a funny way really, just to make me feel better and be able to laugh about it ! What a horrible person I have fallen for :-(
Graduate Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 Do you even need to solicit answers for this? I can't imagine anyone will tell you to continue dating him. I second that. Please, remove yourself from this relationship as soon as possible and don't feel bad about losing him, but good about finding out what a jerk he is before you got even further involved. I am sure it sucks to find out after 4 months that he doesn't care that much about your relationship - especially after you slept with him -, but at least you know he is a total loser and you won't have to worry about having lost "the one". Just get out and hopefully soon you will be able to look back and regard him as someone out of the "What was I thinking?" category.
Art_Critic Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 Obviously you have to kick him to the curb... What a disrespectful idiot.. But before you do.. have her send you the pic and then you send it to him and just ask him if he recognizes anyones naughty bits in the pic.. Personally I would play with this guy some.. have some fun before you dump him...
You'reasian Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 Hi all Anyway, I took it a step further as I needed to know that he wasn't just playing at chatting and my friend, who has a profile on the dating site, messaged him. He got very naughty with her and ended up sending her a pic of his below 'bits' after asking her for a pic of her boobs !! That's insane. I don't think that's respectful of the relationship! I've tried that online dating thing but it never worked - they won't allow you to send naughty pictures as far as I can tell? Even after I quit using the service last year, they still spam the hell out of me trying to bait me back in. Has anyone else found this too?
Ruby Slippers Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 The only positive in this situation is that you only wasted 4 months on this loser.
Author annsumm Posted August 16, 2008 Author Posted August 16, 2008 Well, thats it, he is history. He wasn't even bothered and didn't try to defend his actions - speaks volumes that does. Thank you everyone, time to move on.
Trialbyfire Posted August 16, 2008 Posted August 16, 2008 I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this, especially when you're head over heels. You now have visible proof that he's not of the calibre of man that you need. Point blank, ditch the loser. I find disrespectful people like this revolting.
Mahatma Posted August 16, 2008 Posted August 16, 2008 Leave him, and leave your friend if she knew you were dating this guy.
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