Kamille Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 I met a guy this summer while on a camping trip with friends and ended up having the best sex of my life the same night. He was cute, funny, cuddly, adorable and VERY talented. I happened to be passing by his city on my way to Montreal this summer, so we decided to meet up. The whole thing could have been seedy. He had, hmmm, neglected to tell me he lived at his parents', so he rented a hotel room. This was out of my usual dating persona, but I decided that since he was nothing but fling-material from the get-go, I would not overthink things and just have a good time. (I wonder if the parent excuse isn't a way of hiding a serious relationship though... but I get the impression he was telling the truth). We met up, went to see a great show, went to the restaurant, went to the hotel, talked until 3 in the morning at which point I felt completely comfortable and we decided to test out our sexual chemistry off the camping trails. He was still greatly talented, cute, funny and adorable. I think I know who here has been sexually adventurous and who has hum hum, 'tougher moral fibre'. Apparently I don't. This was totally fun and I'm currently revising my stance on One night stands. And to quote a member with Steel Moral Fibre: Discuss:
Moose Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 This was totally fun and I'm currently revising my stance on One night stands."It's only fun until someone gets hurt" comes to my mind....I can only say I hope you'll find out sooner rather than later....
Jilly Bean Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 K - did he book a Days Inn, or a Marriott? Why does he live at home? Regardless, I am HAPPY to hear that his prowess wasn't confined to wide open spaces (that was not a reference to your vagina, btw - lol). Do you think you will see each other again, or does it end here?
carhill Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 Irrespective of any perceived morality, I envy your emotional construct. I truly do Perhaps someday I will sample that path. Sounds like fun. Third time is a charm, yes?
You'reasian Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 Nice. I can relate...sort of. I live with my uncle and am upfront about this with every woman i've met. While he busts my butt and forbids me from bringing women back home he knows I need to get out from time to time to meet up with an important woman - fortunately, she seems to understand my living arrangement. Good that you think of this man as more than fling material. Maybe he thinks of you the same way?
Trialbyfire Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 Fling away Kamille. If it makes you happy and you're doing it solely for physical gratification, that's your call to make. If you're doing it for external validation or want something more from it, you might find yourself sadly dissappointed. Compartmentalize if you can. I can't.
Author Kamille Posted August 15, 2008 Author Posted August 15, 2008 You were right JB, there wasn't much drama involved. I don't remember the hotel we went to, but it was nice. Your standard kind of hotel. He tried booking a nice little boutique hotel but they had no vacancies left. I suggested we go camping. Why does he live at home? He said it was because he wanted to get out of student debt and also because he separated from an LTR in February. Regardless, I am HAPPY to hear that his prowess wasn't confined to wide open spaces (that was not a reference to your vagina, btw - lol). Reminds me to do my kiegels! Do you think you will see each other again, or does it end here? We've written back and forth and its all light and flirty, but neither of us have plans to travel anytime soon so we'll see. He remains my TNS guy. Carhill Irrespective of any perceived morality, I envy your emotional construct. I truly do Perhaps someday I will sample that path. Sounds like fun. Third time is a charm, yes? Thanks Carhill. I'll link this to TBF's comment about compartmentalization. I think I'm having a bout of "enough is enough". I've tried different things when it comes to dating and right now I just want to have fun. I want to stop overanalyzing everything and dramatizing everything. Usually, that means no sex with a guy until I know we are serious, but in this instance everything - from the campsite context, to the distance to the great kissng - was there so that a fling felt right. Good that you think of this man as more than fling material. Maybe he thinks of you the same way? I do think of him as fling material, which doesn't diminish the esteem I have for him. I just don't think anything else would be feasible. And Moose, if someone gets hurt, then hopefully a lesson will be learned.
Moose Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 And Moose, if someone gets hurt, then hopefully a lesson will be learned.<<<<< Squinting my teeth, holding my breath, muscles tighten as I watch the hand move closer and closer to the hot stove top >>>>>
The Collector Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 No reason why anyone should get hurt. Two adults had some fun, cool.
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