luckyinlove Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 So I just posted about my "first time dumpee" syndrome. And tonight, after a full 2 days, recieved a text message saying, "I still love you so much, why did you have to say such hurtful things?" To which I responded, "I don't know what I was thinking, I've thought about a lot the last couple days but that's one thing I couldn't figure out. The only thing I do know is that making a stupid bratty point ended up costing me one of the most important things in my life." My question is, where do I go if he wants to get back together? Obviously I want to, but would that just be setting myself up for another heartbreak? The only way I'd want to resume things would be if we both sat down and talked about everything that had gone wrong. Is that just a dumb idea?
Sassi75 Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 If you both truly love each other, then yes I would take the chance of talking about all of your concerns/issues and trying to deal with them as a couple. Maybe you just need to get together and talk, to see how you both feel. Discuss what the both of you are willing to do to make your relationship a better one in the future.
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