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I don't know if I am deemed as attractive or not but my personal preference is really intellectual guys. If a guy can carry a mind stimulating conversation, I am silly putty in his hands.

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I also think it could be that the beautiful woman didn't think that they are better, but that instead you imagine that they do because you feel intimidated by them or because you are insecure.

 

I think sometimes people are so intimidated by beautiful people that they imagine the good looking person was unfriendly etc just because the good looking person didn't go out of their way to kiss the unattractive person's ass.

 

Good looking people usually have to "try much harder" to make friends and be friendly because everyone is si put off and intimidated by their good looks.

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Like today i have to talk to about 4 beautiful women at my job all around my age or younger...<19. The way the talk or look away is just disrespectful. Of course i would never want a girl like this but i why cant the beautiful ones be nice and careing?

 

 

Every "hot" girl i have known has been like this...its amazing...if this is the case no decent looking women for me

 

It's very easy to become overwhelmed by "hotness", especially at your age. But you aren't doing yourself any favors by flailing around hoping a little "hotness" gives you some attention. Think about what YOU want in a woman and what YOU find attractive.

 

Eh. I am beginning to think not. I would love a girl that loves sports and cars and is attractive....got nothin so far nor have i seen any.

 

Now you're starting down a better path. Not only can you break down what interests you are looking for a woman to have, but you can also break down the "attractive" part. As you observe, meet, and talk with women, try to identify SPECIFIC physical and personality features and aspects that really ping on your attraction sonar. They might differ somewhat with different women, but the idea is that you get to know yourself a lot better and you may start to see things in more women -- even some "average" ones -- that really turn you on.

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Like today i have to talk to about 4 beautiful women at my job all around my age or younger...<19. The way the talk or look away is just disrespectful. Of course i would never want a girl like this but i why cant the beautiful ones be nice and careing?

 

 

Every "hot" girl i have known has been like this...its amazing...if this is the case no decent looking women for me

 

Good looking women get sh itloads of attention from a very young age. they get it drilled into their heads that they are attractive and the ones who are lacking in character think this entitles them.

 

The case with men is a little different because women won't approach nearly as much. Our success rates are higher when we approach, maybe.

bigmanpayne Established Member

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Actually the best way to get anyones attention is to be smart, witty and charming, interesting etc. etc. this should come through with your approach to life and the things you learn and achieve.

 

Ignoring someone is immature, and if you think that gets someones attention that's worth anything then you're simply wrong. Its just a cheap trick to make you look like someone interesting.

 

 

ignoring works. it is not about trying to get someone who is worth something, its sort of like a back and forth thing. you must remember that the "good looking" girl has started this thing in the first place. nobody ever gets on them about their attitudes and the way they feel like the world owes them something and that your attention is their birthright.

 

now if you really like a girl and she likes you then the rules are different. we are simply talking about those ridiculously good looking women. i know one who is that good looking and wants my constant attention. she doesnt like me, doesnt want me, she just wants my attention - and when she doesnt get it, she flips out. thats what we are talking about - calm down

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I don't know if I am deemed as attractive or not but my personal preference is really intellectual guys. If a guy can carry a mind stimulating conversation, I am silly putty in his hands.

 

 

yeah right. i am sure you do like an intellectual guy but i bet he has to have the right look for you too. that conversation stuff will come after you are OK with his looks, which no doubt have to fit your certain criteria.

 

BTW, you are deemed very attractive judging from the profile pic. :)

CommitmentPhobe Established Member

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ignoring works. it is not about trying to get someone who is worth something, its sort of like a back and forth thing. you must remember that the "good looking" girl has started this thing in the first place. nobody ever gets on them about their attitudes and the way they feel like the world owes them something and that your attention is their birthright.

 

You seem to be the one that thinks they're owed the attention? Well I guess it's a game to you. If someone ignores me I just forget about them whether they're good looking or not. The vast majority of people that interest me don't though. Personally I think you're putting "ridiculously good looking" women on some kind of pedestal. If someone ignores you maybe they just aren't taken by the look of you or the vibe you give out, you're not going to appeal to everyone and similarly not everyone is going to appeal to you, that's the power of choice... it's hardly worth playing a back and forth game of ignore to win someones attention that doesn't want to give it to you is it?

Trialbyfire Established Member

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Actually the best way to get anyones attention is to be smart, witty and charming, interesting etc. etc. this should come through with your approach to life and the things you learn and achieve.

 

Ignoring someone is immature, and if you think that gets someones attention that's worth anything then you're simply wrong. Its just a cheap trick to make you look like someone interesting.

This is the exact way to catch peoples' attention, regardless of looks.

 

Why must the attractive always be separated from the unattractive, with negative connotations placed onto the attractive.

 

 

If you're interested in someone, nut up and ask them out. They'll do one of two things:

  1. Accept your date request, which puts you ahead of where you were.
  2. Reject your date request, which puts you in the exact place you were before you asked her out.

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You seem to be the one that thinks they're owed the attention? Well I guess it's a game to you. If someone ignores me I just forget about them whether they're good looking or not. The vast majority of people that interest me don't though. Personally I think you're putting "ridiculously good looking" women on some kind of pedestal. If someone ignores you maybe they just aren't taken by the look of you or the vibe you give out, you're not going to appeal to everyone and similarly not everyone is going to appeal to you, that's the power of choice... it's hardly worth playing a back and forth game of ignore to win someones attention that doesn't want to give it to you is it?

 

 

I am not convinced that you truly have no idea what we are talking about. i dont think you have dealt with the type of women i and others are discussing. in different parts of the country a '10' is not a 10. a Wisconsin 10 might only be a LA 5 or 6 - not being mean, just being real. The Wisconsin 10 isn't going to act as bad as the LA 10. i think maybe you might be dealing with good looking women and not extremely gorgeous women.

 

a chick that has been extremely gorgeous all of her life has been told so all of her life and almost can't survive if she doesnt feel like the absolute best thing in the room. she wants to be recognized by females and males and being beautiful, the center of attention, etc. she will only date a man who is good looking, but she wants the attention of all men. if you dont give it to her she will do what it takes to get your attention. no games. this is not about trying to be in a relationship we are just pointing out how most really good looking women act.

 

keep this in context man. stop talking about relationships and blah, blah, blah.

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I am not convinced that you truly have no idea what we are talking about.

Yes I do

i dont think you have dealt with the type of women i and others are discussing.

 

Or maybe I don't need to "deal" with them. Maybe it's just that they don't like the look of you and "others" hence you have to go through a whole rigamoral of ignoring them to get nowhere. Have you got this beautiful woman into bed through your tactics, somehow I doubt it.

 

Spare me the PUA stuff and the generalisations... you're just insecure

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Funny this was brought up...but my response is definately not the typical retort. LOL

 

 

Friend of mine...was dating a chick that worked at a Gentleman's club..nope..she was not a dancer...she was just a door girl...but she was hot.

 

Anyways, she pretty much kept bringing her friends after work, and they drink all the liquor in his liquor cabinet, and make a mess of the house almost on a daily basis.

 

He confronted her about it..and this was her response...and this is PAR for this thread.

 

"Well, you had a choice between NICE and HOT...and you chose HOT!"

 

He ended it right there.:laugh:

 

Man what a cocky witch!!

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Like today i have to talk to about 4 beautiful women at my job all around my age or younger...<19. The way the talk or look away is just disrespectful. Of course i would never want a girl like this but i why cant the beautiful ones be nice and careing?

 

 

Every "hot" girl i have known has been like this...its amazing...if this is the case no decent looking women for me

 

Well, I guess for women it's different. I always get some very mean attitude from the ugly/chubby girls for some reason. Like the other day I was walking slowly looking at my iPod and suddenly this overweight chick ran into me, practically pushed me completely to the ground. I was in total shock.

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Well, I guess for women it's different. I always get some very mean attitude from the ugly/chubby girls for some reason. Like the other day I was walking slowly looking at my iPod and suddenly this overweight chick ran into me, practically pushed me completely to the ground. I was in total shock.
I've gotten some really bad vibes from some chubby girls. Not to be outdone, I've actually gotten really angry with some hot chicks. I don't think the chubby girl would be any nicer without the extra weight.

 

I can deal with a snotty attitude, but what really pisses me off is the complete disregard for human life.

I don't care how pretty she is. Being callous about her DUI that directly resulted in the death of another individual qualifies her for SCUM OF THE EARTH. Hang that albatross around her neck because she is cursed for the rest of her days.

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Yes I do

 

 

Or maybe I don't need to "deal" with them. Maybe it's just that they don't like the look of you and "others" hence you have to go through a whole rigamoral of ignoring them to get nowhere. Have you got this beautiful woman into bed through your tactics, somehow I doubt it.

 

Spare me the PUA stuff and the generalisations... you're just insecure

 

 

OMG! That is the point. who said anything about getting them into my bed? you are missing it. i dont care about doing anything with this chick, i hate the whole game playing crap too. you are missing everything that i am trying to say. in my particular case, yes i am not what the beautiful chick wants, but she does want my attention - that is the point. she doesnt want to have sex with me or be in a relationship with me but if i dont slob all over her she gets upset - so i just ignore her. either way i lose but ignoring her is the best route.

 

and although i am not denzel washington or tom cruise i have had no problem attracting these gorgeous women - why? i honestly have no idea LOL, but they keep coming, there is just one in particular who doesnt want anything but my attention - and it bugs me. i dont know why you are getting so hostile - i am just pointing out how they act. i see this crap all of the time. and honestly, i prefer not to be in any type of a relationship with females like this; they are just too needy, and too much work.

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Funny this was brought up...but my response is definately not the typical retort. LOL

 

 

Friend of mine...was dating a chick that worked at a Gentleman's club..nope..she was not a dancer...she was just a door girl...but she was hot.

 

Anyways, she pretty much kept bringing her friends after work, and they drink all the liquor in his liquor cabinet, and make a mess of the house almost on a daily basis.

 

He confronted her about it..and this was her response...and this is PAR for this thread.

 

"Well, you had a choice between NICE and HOT...and you chose HOT!"

 

He ended it right there.:laugh:

 

Man what a cocky witch!!

 

 

Thank you for sharing that! You get it. This is how some (most) of those women act... Like they are owed the world!

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It never ceases to amaze me what people say on the internet. So often you can sense the bitterness of rejection, therefore, via text, it's a form of preemptive rejection (love the term Nemo, thanks!).

 

People love to tear down what they can't have.

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I think this is less related to beauty and more related to status...or a pretentiously arrogant approach adopted in order to imply high status. I've seen men and women carrying on with that manner when they're trying to pass themselves off as upper class...aka "I went to boarding school, so I have the accent. Now, provided I can make my carefully cultivated disdainful manner seem natural and authentic, people might assume I have a title and a large country estate.

 

Celebrities do the same thing. The world is full of aspiring aristocrats. Some use money, some use beauty and some use carefully cultivated arrogance to portray that image. Anyone remember the film "American Beauty" when the boy next door tells the blonde girl that she's ordinary? And it totally burns her? That rude, disdainful approach is popular with narcissistic people - and it might just be a way of saying "don't get too close to me. What you're seeing now is as good as it gets."

 

That said, it always pays to consider whether the person is really being arrogant - or whether one's own insecurities are warping perceptions.

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Beautiful and "hot" are two different things. Most beautiful women I know and have met are very nice. Most "hot" girls are just plain bitches. They are like this because a lot of men place them higher than everyone else, and eventually this goes to their heads.

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or whether one's own insecurities are warping perceptions.
More often than not, it's what I see on LS. The bitter overly-sensitive young man who's afraid of rejection, therefore will make the assumption that beautiful women aren't worth having. Same goes for the bitter, overly-sensitive young woman who believes the same for the drop-dead gorgeous men.

 

What you'll find is that the exact same people who tear down "beautiful" people, also believe in the silly ladder theory with people being "above" or "below" them on levels.

 

I'm not beautiful so I'm not relating to this group.

 

You'll find that there are good and not so nice people in all walks of life. Allow the people who have hearts of gold close to you. Beyond that, the rest you can either accept or reject. Don't be fooled by what people say. Watch what they do and mesh the two.

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Ive noticed that most beautiful /hott chicks that are cool are from other countries.

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It never ceases to amaze me what people say on the internet. So often you can sense the bitterness of rejection, therefore, via text, it's a form of preemptive rejection (love the term Nemo, thanks!).

 

People love to tear down what they can't have.

 

i really hope you aren't refering to me. this post is right after mine so i am assuming you are talking about me.

 

dude, i have 3 children who i love very much. May God strike one of them down in their sleep... I am not bitter about what I can't have. as i said before i am able to get all different types of women 1s to 10s. i am simply telly you what i see and what i observe. the truth is you just won't see one of these women ever sit down and tell you the truth. can you imagine someone saying, "Yeah i treat people liek s*it simply because i am beautiful and can" c'mon man.

 

you are suggesting that their actions are ok. nobody can point out the faults because if you do that means you are jealous or want them or whatever. i talked about one girl in particular, and believe me i was never rejected by her. i never wanted her, never tried anything with her, never really even acknowledged her... thats where the problem came. if that is bitterness then fine, i am bitter that she is so vain that when she doesnt get any attention she takes offense to it. GUILTY!

 

no bitterness my man. i subscribe to the Tom Leykis school of dating and have no time (literally) to be bitter, or be rejected. believe it.

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Ive noticed that most beautiful /hott chicks that are cool are from other countries.

 

 

Yes! If they haven't been corrupted by America yet, it is almost like they don't even know how beautiful they are and how bad they should treat people. Good observation.

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Beautiful and "hot" are two different things. Most beautiful women I know and have met are very nice. Most "hot" girls are just plain bitches. They are like this because a lot of men place them higher than everyone else, and eventually this goes to their heads.

 

 

Yet another good point and you might be correct. hot might be a better term. when i actually call someone (female) beautiful it is usually not just outside but in. hot is just hot on the outside, usually nothing on the inside.

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i really hope you aren't refering to me. this post is right after mine so i am assuming you are talking about me.

 

dude, i have 3 children who i love very much. May God strike one of them down in their sleep... I am not bitter about what I can't have. as i said before i am able to get all different types of women 1s to 10s. i am simply telly you what i see and what i observe. the truth is you just won't see one of these women ever sit down and tell you the truth. can you imagine someone saying, "Yeah i treat people liek s*it simply because i am beautiful and can" c'mon man.

 

you are suggesting that their actions are ok. nobody can point out the faults because if you do that means you are jealous or want them or whatever. i talked about one girl in particular, and believe me i was never rejected by her. i never wanted her, never tried anything with her, never really even acknowledged her... thats where the problem came. if that is bitterness then fine, i am bitter that she is so vain that when she doesnt get any attention she takes offense to it. GUILTY!

 

no bitterness my man. i subscribe to the Tom Leykis school of dating and have no time (literally) to be bitter, or be rejected. believe it.

I was referring to a number of different posts.

 

Your exposure to a very miniscule number of beautiful women shouldn't cause you to generalize that all are nasty and/or horrible people. Personal past experience, be it rejection or otherwise causes bitterness.

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Yes! If they haven't been corrupted by America yet, it is almost like they don't even know how beautiful they are and how bad they should treat people. Good observation.

 

 

Indeed. lol. And when did this become "hateshack" lol. I come here because its loveshack. PPl attacking your character lol. Drinking to much "hatorade" i guess. I dunno:confused:

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