Brady_to_Moss Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Like today i have to talk to about 4 beautiful women at my job all around my age or younger...<19. The way the talk or look away is just disrespectful. Of course i would never want a girl like this but i why cant the beautiful ones be nice and careing? Every "hot" girl i have known has been like this...its amazing...if this is the case no decent looking women for me Link to post Share on other sites
nopainnogain Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 There are not so attractive ppl that are like that too. Just steer clear of those types of ppl. For me, I would love to find a woman that is just like camron diaz personality wise from something about mary. She is hott and likes sports with a big heart. They are out there ,arent they? Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Boorish personality knows no physicality. Let them eat your silence sandwich. Yum Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted August 15, 2008 Author Share Posted August 15, 2008 They are out there ,arent they? Eh. I am beginning to think not. I would love a girl that loves sports and cars and is attractive....got nothin so far nor have i seen any. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Like today i have to talk to about 4 beautiful women at my job all around my age or younger...<19. The way the talk or look away is just disrespectful. Of course i would never want a girl like this but i why cant the beautiful ones be nice and careing? Every "hot" girl i have known has been like this...its amazing...if this is the case no decent looking women for me The ugliest and homeliest of men can stir violent interest and passion in the most beautiful of women simply by appearing indifferent and by treating them as just another person. Beautiful women are used to being treated special. It drives them up a wall when a guy doesn't slobber all over them. Try it! Link to post Share on other sites
bigmanpayne Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Like today i have to talk to about 4 beautiful women at my job all around my age or younger...<19. The way the talk or look away is just disrespectful. Of course i would never want a girl like this but i why cant the beautiful ones be nice and careing? Every "hot" girl i have known has been like this...its amazing...if this is the case no decent looking women for me dont get me started on gorgeous women. i have a ton of stories, i know exactly what you are talking about. for some reason i have been attracting really beautiful women - 9s and 10s (even though i am a little overweight, and not good looking in my opinion) and they are so hard to deal with. the are attention whores, high maintenance, and very crazy. i also date females who are just average or better and they seem to be less trouble. i can go on forever and ever, people just have no idea. if i ever get married again (and that will be highly unlikely) it will not be with some girl who think they have model good looks. they are nothing but trouble. Link to post Share on other sites
bigmanpayne Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 The ugliest and homeliest of men can stir violent interest and passion in the most beautiful of women simply by appearing indifferent and by treating them as just another person. Beautiful women are used to being treated special. It drives them up a wall when a guy doesn't slobber all over them. Try it! no doubt! i have said this to everyone on this board... the quickest way to get a really hot girl's attention is to simply ignore them... they will go out of their way to get your attention. act like you dont need them, believe me they will come around. that is more of guarantee then me staying a male for the rest of my life... and i have no intention on ever getting a sex change. Link to post Share on other sites
nopainnogain Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Eh. I am beginning to think not. I would love a girl that loves sports and cars and is attractive....got nothin so far nor have i seen any. One time I went to kragen in my pimped out 82 trans am to get tire shiner. I parked next to a nice 69 camaro. The hottest girl owned it and she was my age. Plus she worked there. But she was married:( Link to post Share on other sites
Jilly Bean Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Eh. I am beginning to think not. I would love a girl that loves sports and cars and is attractive....got nothin so far nor have i seen any. Well, that's me - but I am totally prone to random douchiness, so there goes that. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 huh? i don't get this mind set. where i live MOST peeps are attractive. attractive and nice... and some of us happen to LOVE sports. maybe you are looking in the wrong places. Link to post Share on other sites
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 no doubt! i have said this to everyone on this board... the quickest way to get a really hot girl's attention is to simply ignore them... they will go out of their way to get your attention. act like you dont need them, believe me they will come around. that is more of guarantee then me staying a male for the rest of my life... and i have no intention on ever getting a sex change. Actually the best way to get anyones attention is to be smart, witty and charming, interesting etc. etc. this should come through with your approach to life and the things you learn and achieve. Ignoring someone is immature, and if you think that gets someones attention that's worth anything then you're simply wrong. Its just a cheap trick to make you look like someone interesting. Link to post Share on other sites
Vicious_Delicious Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Read "The Game" Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 I'm not outstandingly goodlooking, but I sometimes act short when I know the guy is going to hit on me if I act nice. I'm not always in the mood to get hit on, especially not at work. All and all though, I think I've improved on that front. I now like attention a lot more then I use to and feel more in control of how those interactions will go. (If a guy I'm not interested in asks me out, I'm better at saying no diplomatically.) Maybe you're projecting the wrong aura around girls you find hot? Link to post Share on other sites
SilkLeaves Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 I think that quite often stunningly attractive people are under the impression that looks are everything, especially in a society that seems to be constantly gushing over their beauty. They're not stupid, but they do see what their beauty can get them and this causes some people to think 'well, what else do I need?'. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Because everybody feeds their ego and it goes to their heads. They start to believe their own hype. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 I've also noted that formerly "beautiful" people who believed their press continue to have a distorted sense of their importance long after the impetus for the perception of it has faded. They have allowed society to train them as one-dimensional Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 If beautiful women behave badly, it's because they've learned they can get away with it and guys will still hover around them. If men dropped them when their ugliness came out, they'd learn they have to offer more than beauty to actually be with a man. But, men don't do that. They give her a pass on rude behavior because she's hot and they want to be with the hottie. Link to post Share on other sites
LovehateLove Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 If beautiful women behave badly, it's because they've learned they can get away with it and guys will still hover around them. If men dropped them when their ugliness came out, they'd learn they have to offer more than beauty to actually be with a man. But, men don't do that. They give her a pass on rude behavior because she's hot and they want to be with the hottie. Very true and it's also the same with some women who will date a player or a unfaithful serpent because he is gorgeous and masquerades around as a Gentleman. I met a beautiful woman at my work recently, she is new and I have been speaking to her during our lunch breaks and I had to work with her and several others on a logistics project. Well, to cut a short story shorter, she has a wonderful personality and is very gracious and courteous. Some of the single men at work have been polishing their chat up lines and executing them on her and she isn't very impressed. She is single, because she can't find a man who will look past her looks and like her personality. So, there are very pretty women out there who can't find a decent men and would probably trade their looks for a decent, and honest man. To judge all beautiful women as egomaniacs is just idiotic and unrealistic. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Jam Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 I think this topic is stupid, but I like this reply: If beautiful women behave badly, it's because they've learned they can get away with it and guys will still hover around them. If men dropped them when their ugliness came out, they'd learn they have to offer more than beauty to actually be with a man. But, men don't do that. They give her a pass on rude behavior because she's hot and they want to be with the hottie. Men and women need to learn this one very hard. We as a society tend to give a free ride to people because they're beautiful. Women put up with being treated terribly because the guy is hot and maybe wealthy and exciting. Guys put up with bad behavior because they so much want a trophy over a true partner. Some pretty folk will be good people, others will use the system. If you get treated badly, learn to walk away. If you get used over and over by the same person then it's your own fault. Link to post Share on other sites
Haloandhorns85 Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 I don't consider myself gorgeous, but I also don't consider myself unfortunate looking. I don't dress in a way to purposely draw attention to myself, however, I do notice that men look at me. Occassionally, I will put on that haughty air, only because the way they look at me (or how long they have been staring) makes me uncomfortable and I do not want them to try any interaction. I have a bf. I am not interested in anyone else. Period. In addition, I am frequently being hit on by men of all ages. It gets annoying when I can't simply do my grocery shopping without being gawked at or being hit on. That's why I carry myself that way sometimes. I don't think I'm better than anyone else, I just want to carry on with my life. Link to post Share on other sites
Grrlish Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 huh? i don't get this mind set. where i live MOST peeps are attractive. attractive and nice... and some of us happen to LOVE sports. maybe you are looking in the wrong places. Ditto. I know a lot of attractive men and women who are great to be around. I will throw myself into the bunch because I'm lucky enough to have enough friends around me and clients who tell me how nice I am. And as 2Sunny said, we love to watch and participate in sports. In fact, I'd say that most of my boyfriends have been less into sports than I am. Like today i have to talk to about 4 beautiful women at my job all around my age or younger...<19. The way the talk or look away is just disrespectful. Of course i would never want a girl like this but i why cant the beautiful ones be nice and careing? Every "hot" girl i have known has been like this...its amazing...if this is the case no decent looking women for me Brady to Moss, I think that a lot of very young women who are pretty are rude these days. Thank the media and the very young spoiled crowd of media stars and weak parents for that. But they're not all like that. I happen to have had the chance to meet several of the young gals graduating from our local high schools over the last few years. These gals were all scholarship recipients and heading to college. Many of them were very pretty. They were all smart and nice and polite and articulate. The majority were into sports and/or community service (volunteering). They all had GPAs between 3.5 and 4.something. Perhaps you are picking the snotty ones to approach. Perhaps there are just a bunch of snotty girls at your work. I was never like that, at that age. I was built like a brickhouse at that age and definitely didn't have a problem meeting guys who wanted to go out with me. I actually think that a lot of guys my age didn't know how to talk to me because I was nice, had things to talk about, etc. I think this has been mentioned above but 25 years ago, society expected very pretty girls to be stupid. I went out of my way to dress conservatively (at work, anyway) and tried hard not to be taken for a dingbat. Men who took the time to actually converse with me either ran because they figured out that I had a brain and I could hold a conversation, or they were pleasantly surprised to discover these things and stuck around. These days, I think that society expects very pretty girls to be snotty and self-centered. Someone above said something like this...try treating them as if they're just the girl next door. Listen and identify something that they are interested in and ask them about it. Compliment or comment on something other than their appearance (although a compliment about their appearance is not a bad idea sometimes, too). Also, what are you talking to them about? Are you presenting yourself as interesting and a good conversationalist? Sorry, but if they're looking away like they're bored, maybe...they are. Lastly, I'll say that I'm quite a bit older than you are, in my early 40s. But it didn't take 40 years to figure out that there are as many unattractive jerks as there are pretty jerks. Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Like today i have to talk to about 4 beautiful women at my job all around my age or younger...<19. The way the talk or look away is just disrespectful. Of course i would never want a girl like this but i why cant the beautiful ones be nice and careing? Every "hot" girl i have known has been like this...its amazing...if this is the case no decent looking women for me You're a young guy, right? Young women can use their beauty to get favors from men who look for beauty. They learn this early on. Once its engrained into them, they start to expect to get everything, especially if they come from a background where they didn't have to work for anything and worse off - think we guys are stupid. And those are they guys they seem to attract. Here's a thought: Change the way you look at a young woman. I know - they gotta have a certain look....blah, blah, blah Look deeper my friend. Look at what's attractive about her personalty. Who she is. What she is capable of. You may have a few good times with a young attractive woman, but you will have many, many more with a woman who is smart, funny and cool - who just happens to be attractive. Go gettem! Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Like today i have to talk to about 4 beautiful women at my job all around my age or younger...<19. The way the talk or look away is just disrespectful. Of course i would never want a girl like this but i why cant the beautiful ones be nice and careing? Every "hot" girl i have known has been like this...its amazing...if this is the case no decent looking women for me Look deeper my friend. Exactly. Instead of wishing the beautiful girls were all nice and caring, why not look at the girls who are nice and caring? Maybe your criteria for choosing girls to be interested in needs to go a little further than "hot". Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 If beautiful women behave badly, it's because they've learned they can get away with it and guys will still hover around them. If men dropped them when their ugliness came out, they'd learn they have to offer more than beauty to actually be with a man. But, men don't do that. They give her a pass on rude behavior because she's hot and they want to be with the hottie. Very true but too many men think with the wrong head. Link to post Share on other sites
shanny Posted August 15, 2008 Share Posted August 15, 2008 Attractive girls are like that because they live in a society where men will do anything for the hot girls. Guys think with their d*ck and not there head and will worship the hot girls and toss the average girls to the side. Link to post Share on other sites
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