redfathom Posted August 14, 2008 Posted August 14, 2008 I think my H is a bad kisser, or maybe me. I have only kissed one other guy and he told me that he loved to kiss me. He is either to slobbery, doesn't open his mouth enough so when I try stick my tounge in his mouth his teeth kind up bit it, or he sucks on my bottom lip to hard and it hurts. Anyways, how can I fix this? P.S. I feel so guilty about saying this.
carhill Posted August 14, 2008 Posted August 14, 2008 FYI, a guy who is genuinely into his lady is always up for learning new techniques, whether it be kissing, cunnilingus or back rubs. Use positive words and cues. When he gets it right, reward him. This is the essence of training Try to assuage your guilt by understanding that he can't read your mind. You might find that there are some things which you can do for him as well
Author redfathom Posted August 14, 2008 Author Posted August 14, 2008 Haha, I guess I should try talking to him about it...
Ruby Slippers Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 Maybe instead of saying what he does wrong you can suggest that you try kissing in some different ways: softer, slower, more tongue, less teeth, whatever. I think my boyfriend is a great kisser, but there was a point when I felt I wasn't getting enough sweet/slow/sexy kisses, so I requested them. We worked on it (fun), and he delivered. Now he mixes it up more, and I am very happy with the variety. Hopefully your husband will take your pointers in stride. Unless they are very insecure, most men are happy to try new techniques with their woman.
Author redfathom Posted August 15, 2008 Author Posted August 15, 2008 So we did talk about it last night. We started to make out and he was all teeth, I mean my lip was getting raw. I told him this and I said, do you want to see what your doing and I did the same thing to him...he liked it and got really into kissing, ahahaha! Well, at least I found something else he enjoys
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