Mickey Blue Eyes Posted August 14, 2008 Posted August 14, 2008 I decided to go NC. I saw my MM (my coworker) and after being with him, having to delete email, texts, etc I realized that nothing good will ever come of our 'thing.' When we first met, we would talk about our families, our interests and then we didn't talk about anything. He was always good about telling me that I looked good....he really stroked my ego and i guess i stroked his. We are forced to communicate at work. It's been strictly business since "NC." Everyday that goes by, I feel like I can do one more day...and then one more day. It's been almost a month. I really miss the fun & flirty email but I'm going to try to do that with my H. and see where that goes.
crystal_lostheart Posted August 14, 2008 Posted August 14, 2008 It's good that you have realised that 'nothing will come of it'. At least you know this for sure. I guess alot of OW cling onto false hope that 'something will come of it' when most of the time - it never does. Does your H now know about the R with MM? Do you think you might tell him or just leave it be?
wildsoul Posted August 14, 2008 Posted August 14, 2008 I really miss the fun & flirty email but I'm going to try to do that with my H. and see where that goes. That sounds like a great idea! You can use the A as a catalyst in a positive way.
beautifullove Posted August 14, 2008 Posted August 14, 2008 MBE - I don't know your story, but why did your R with MM end? I'm having difficulties opening up previous posts, so I'm not sure if you have posted you story on LS.
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