AvaSylvian Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 I've been dating this guy for a month and he still introduces me as his friend. I'm used to guys calling me girlfriend right away. We've had sex and everything and spend a lot of time together. The only thing is he's pretty well off financially and I'm not. He's really ambitious and I'm just a simple girl who has a few goals but nothing too big. How can I tell whether this will last or if he's just playing with me until he gets bored. How can I tell if he's serious about me?...or is it too soon to tell?
xpaperxcutx Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 If he hasn't introduced you as his girlfriend and you've only had sex, then the only word to describe your relationship is FWB. I think a month is enough time for him to officially ask you to be his gf. Has he alluded any mentions for you guys to be more? Or has he played it somewhat nonchalantly and refused to bring the subject matter up?
Author AvaSylvian Posted August 13, 2008 Author Posted August 13, 2008 I've brought it up to him I asked him if he wanted to be friends, wanted to just date and see where it goes or if he wanted a relationship. He turned it around on me and asked me to answer first. I told him I wanted a relationship and he told me he wanted the same. I thought that this meant ok, now it's official, but then after that I heard him talking to his mom on the phone and he told her he was going to introduce me, his good friend to her. It confused me.
xpaperxcutx Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 I've brought it up to him I asked him if he wanted to be friends, wanted to just date and see where it goes or if he wanted a relationship. He turned it around on me and asked me to answer first. I told him I wanted a relationship and he told me he wanted the same. I thought that this meant ok, now it's official, but then after that I heard him talking to his mom on the phone and he told her he was going to introduce me, his good friend to her. It confused me. That is confusing. But he's bringing you home to see his mom, so maybe he wants to surprise his parents when you guys meet face to face. Don't antagonize him too much on it, see how he introduces you to his family and then worry on it. Maybe he'll surprise you and ask you to be his gf in front of his parents.
JoeNewbie Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 I think you are still early in the relationship and should not worry about this. Do not focus on words but rather on the way he treats you. If he is nice, attentive and affectionate, leave it at that. I personally would be very prudent about calling a girl my GF just because I want to take things slow. Doesn't mean I'm not serious.
JoeNewbie Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 I've brought it up to him I asked him if he wanted to be friends, wanted to just date and see where it goes or if he wanted a relationship. He turned it around on me and asked me to answer first. I told him I wanted a relationship and he told me he wanted the same. I thought that this meant ok, now it's official, but then after that I heard him talking to his mom on the phone and he told her he was going to introduce me, his good friend to her. It confused me. I would stop worrying if I were you.
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