ImLost07 Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 So Ryan and I broke up almost a month ago.. We havent spoken and the last thing we said was that we needed space to collect our thoughts. Ive been itching to write him an email. I have no idea what I want to say, or what I hope to get out of it.. but not talking is really hurting me. We were long distance.. and its almost like this breakup didnt really happen because Im used to not seeing him. The only thing that eats at me is how quiet my phone is now.. We ended on great terms and we came to the conclusion our timing in life is off and we both have a lot of soul searching to do before a relationship could ever take place between us again. He thought things were an uphill battle and I wanted to be single my last year of college... so in a very very short version.. we broke up mutually. He initiated it and I finished it. And on a side note I had never seen him cry untill we broke up. In some twisted way it actually gave me validation that he could shed a tear for me. Last time I saw him I just started balling and he held me in his arms and told me it would be ok. He kissed my forehead and told me "we just dont work right now" and told me "we need space". I dont want to bother him.. but Im wondering if I should contact him or should I wait for him to contact me? Im really sad that this had to happen and I wish things could have been different.
saams Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 if you really want to then you should contact him, just keep in mind talking to him again while your hurt about the breakup might make it even harder to take. considering it was a mutual breakup and you guys dont have any bad feelings for eachother, you should maybe just go on as friends?
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