Scooter25 Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 So after hanging out with this girl for about a week I finally took her out. Nothing special couple glasses of wine at my place then we grabbed some munchies and saw a movie. Went pretty well. She's pretty shy and after I the date I brought her back to her car, she said to give her a call. I said I had a good time and asked if she did, which she replied yes, so knowing she was shy I garabed her hand pulled her towards me and gave her a peck on the lips. Nothing special just a friendly good nite peck to show her I am interested. Anyway I'm debating calling or emailing her saying it was fun and I can't wait to do something fun again. I don't want to sound pushy or needy but I'm a bit rusty, any suggestions.
stefspets Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 Call her, tell her you had a good time, and ask for another date.
Author Scooter25 Posted August 13, 2008 Author Posted August 13, 2008 I'm leaning that way but I know for a fact that I will see her out tomorow with friends at a festival I'm going to. So I figured I could always ask her then.
Shygirl15 Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 Can you please call her? She's waiting, you know. You don't want her to think you asked just because you bumped into her at this festival.
Author Scooter25 Posted August 13, 2008 Author Posted August 13, 2008 I don't know, that's why I asked:) But I'm curious what makes you think she's waiting.
Shygirl15 Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 I don't know, that's why I asked:) But I'm curious what makes you think she's waiting. Hey, didn't you say in your thread that she told you to give her a call? Anyway, most guys DO call the woman after the date, to simply express that they had a nice time with the woman and sometimes plan another date. I don't know how many days you've delayed this call already, but usually guys call the same night or next day; it's simply the gentlemanly thing to do. I hope you like her and want to continue seeing her..
Author Scooter25 Posted August 13, 2008 Author Posted August 13, 2008 It was last night so I haven't really delayed anything yet. And I figured it would be the polite thing to do but I didn't want to look pushy after I gave the peck on the lips
Shygirl15 Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 No, Scooter, those are just the rules of dating; you call the woman right after the date even if you didn't like much about her. Nothing pushy about that. Imagine as shy as she is, she even managed to ask you to call. I think she enjoyed your company and didn't really mind the peck.
Author Scooter25 Posted August 13, 2008 Author Posted August 13, 2008 Point taken I'll call her up after I get out of work today.
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