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Hello All

 

I have been dating my BF for over 4 months now & we have been fighting alot & i ended things through a disagreement on email.

 

He just called me up crying & begging for me to call him back. :eek:

 

Just wondering if this is weird for a man to call crying or just that he's upset. I never had a guy do that before.

 

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FYI, we are both 35 years old - if that matters at all

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I would be concerned if a man that age that I had only been dating for four months called me up begging and crying. I'd have to wonder why:

 

Was he too emotionally attached or infatuated?

Is he emotionally unstable?

Is he using crocodile tears to manipulate?

 

After only four months, men generally don't genuinely cry and beg over a break up like that. Usually something deeper that may or may not be related to the relationship is going on.

 

What is your gut telling you? Did something seem off to you over the past few months? Was he getting over an ex when he met you?

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it's not wierd but it shows he is not an emotionally strong person..

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Yea thanks, saams, he is not emotionally strong person & either am I so i can't judge him when i'm the same way.

 

thanks

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