I am breaking up with with my boyfriend

[elizabeth26]

We have been dating for 6 years, and it's just gone very downhill lately, I am very much in love with him but I know he is a different person and we have grown apart, he is scared to lose our relationship but he has not done enough to show me he cares. When I am attentive to him he seems to get annoyed. When I get fed up and take off to my sister's to vent, he is always calling me to apologize. He told me the other night that if I move out it's over and I told him that it's been over for a while whether he's noticed or not,( not the best thing to say while angry I know). There can't be a working relationship when he is never there for me. Out of the blue every now and then (usually around his friends) he will hug me or hold my hand and he just doesn't usually do that and I wish he would. we don't do things as a couple, he always invites friends out with us without asking if I mind, and I told him I feel like he doesn't want to be alone with me, of course I'm no fun anymore! we have not had a "date night" in years! I really miss how we used to be we were very close, we talked about many things and he really looked so happy to see me. Not anymore and I can't fix things on my own. How do you get a guy to tell you how he feels? I feel like he is afraid to even talk to me, I may be a little too obsessed with talking it out with him, but I have to know where I stand to him. we have sat down and had some talks but he doesn't like to talk about our relationship. I am not meaning when we will get married I really just want to be happy together, not left out and alone. I really am a positive person but it's been hard with the way it's going.

[elizabeth26]

I hope I don't sound crazy but I am sure that for anything to change he needs to know how much his behavior is hurting me and breaking up, even if for short term is the only way to wake him up. I have really tried to be patient and I can't do it anymore, I appreciate any advice.