dreamy1945 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 to do for you to kick him out? If wife were to find out more info on breaking nc but the husband refuses to admit that he broke nc would you have to have proof from him or would you take it from someone else?
fubarred Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 It depends on the source of the "proof". When my wife's EA came to light, I had two of her friends come onto me. One of them offered up all sorts of "info" that hinted that her affair was MUCH more than I thought... but then she followed it up with "you know, there ARE still women out there that can appreciate a good man like you". The problem is that I had all of her recent phone conversations with my wife recorded and I knew she was full of ****... Affairs can bring out the worst in all people involved, not just the one doing the cheating. Be careful who you trust.
Ronni_W Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 It depends on what wife wants: To kick him out as soon as possible, or to make a really concerted effort to get the marriage back on track? If wife really just wants to kick him out, she should just do it instead of pretending, and waiting until she can throw a "real reason" in his face -- in that case, likely wife is just wanting to be able to act like the victim after she gets her "proof". If wife wants the marriage, then she should focus on how to go about healing and strengthening it instead of listening to (waiting for?) gossip and rumours from other sources.
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