MusicChick24 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 My boyfriend of 3 years decided we needed to take a break because he wasn't sure if he was in love with me and able to make a lifetime commitment to me when he hasn't seen what else is out there, because I was his first and only girlfriend. Well we are starting college within the next week and this is probably the worst time for this because I am so stressed! Tomorrow morning I will be moving out, thanks to the help of my two best friends because after the boy and I went on a break he decided not to help me move after all. Then tomorrow afternoon I will be leaving for the mountains for three days of no communication with my Freshman class for a get-to-know-ya trip. As much as this sucks to think about I'm somewhat excited about the whole thing. But this break thing sucks. I understand the wanting to know what else is out there, because I've dated enough guys to know what I want, but he hasn't you know? However he is my best friend. So cutting communication doesn't work but we have tried to lessen it. However since I'm the only person he's ever hung out with or invited over my friends and I think his mistake is going to settle in while I'm in the mountains since I will have no choice on whether or not to contact him due to poor signal. He made it seem like I was the worst girl on the Earth saying I was so mean and horrible to him when I was always the one who had a job and the money to spend on us both. I don't want to lose him, but I want him to realize his mistake. Should I persue other guys while waiting? <3
Peter_pan Posted August 14, 2008 Posted August 14, 2008 hmm reminds me of me a little bit, we where both each others first so we both felt the same. however i wanted to take a break and see how things went, they didn't go to well and she ended up moving on once she had met someone new, she didnt want me back and it took ages to know that she was involved with this new guy. so yeh i regret that alot, it still annoys me. i now realize what i had, however i still havnt "seen what is out there" i still wonder why she ever went out with him. clearly a rebound
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