Whitefox123 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 is it possible that a person could say harsh things to their ex and go as far as blaming them for EVERYTHING that went wrong in their relationship just to help them get over everything. I recently had an online conversation with my ex and I got blamed for everything and it wasnt a pretty ending. But then later that night I get a phone call...basically it was him acting as if nothing was wrong, and I was trying to keep my cool with him. Then he proceeded to ask me if I was mad at him for earlier in the day and then we got into this (polite) discussion about the situation...where i was still getting blamed somewhat. But at the very end of the night, he told me he loved me (and said he meant it) and that left me totally confused. You dont just tell your ex (who you say ruined love for you and who you were with for almost 3 years) that you love them!!!!!! What leads me to believe that he is just trying to help himself get over me is that we were discussing the whole moving on thing, and he asked how it was going and then i asked him and he said that there were so many things that reminded him of me. (implying that it was hard?) We tried the whole friendship thing...and actually came VERY close to getting back together, but when he started his new job and his hours became opposite of mine, we started losing sight of that 'happy ending'. And this is also when he started being somewhat rude to me. He even got 'upset' because i added 2 new guys to my friends list on myspace. He said he just finds it funny. I have NO romantic feelings for either one of them...and one is my friends boyfriend (and he knows this!!!). The last few days we've had little or no contact, and i miss him like crazy! We also went from spending at least 2-3 times a week together…after we were broken up…to not seeing each other for over two weeks. I am just so confused on everything because we really did almost get back together a few weeks ago....but then all the sudden its all my fault! School is starting again soon, I'm anxious to see what will happen with that because we will be forced basically to see each other 2 times a week (we have a few classes together and its too late to change). I am wishing/hoping/praying that either things get easier for me and I can move on...or that we will find a way back to each other. But I was just wondering if anyone has ever gone through a similar situation with the ex trying to bring them down...and what the outcome really was!
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