elizabeth26 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 I am stressed out by life lately and with my relationship. I know that the bad events will blow over and I need to stay thinking positive. I don't really have people I talk to about relationship problems I just deal with it on my own or with my boyfriend. My Boyfriend of 6 years has commitment issues and I think I need some time away to focus on where I am at, and know where I want to go in life and other words. I have so many things to accomplish and I don't feel like he will let me accomplish my goals. I work full time and go to school. I take full responsibility of the household and any shopping or cleaning that needs to be done. I have found out lately that my boyfriend has been going on a buying spree with his friends, buying race cars and gear, and hunting supplies and guns and bows and arrows. Every guys fantasy I know... He has a job and is paying for his hobbies but his job consumes alot of his time and he used to like to go out to dinner and watch a movie or something but now he just goes places with his friends. Recently two of his friends got married and he went to their bachelor parties, I Just found out the details when his drunk friend spilled the beans I know somewhat of what goes on but it was not ok with me and I told him, and I just feel like it's time I move on. I can't handle doing so much for a person that does this crap. If he didn't want this relationship he could have told me, and every time we fight he says to be patient we have a future together, but I really think I'm done, I love him but I don't even know if I'm really in love anymore. I will try and clarify in future threads but this is the best I can do right now.
Author elizabeth26 Posted August 13, 2008 Author Posted August 13, 2008 I've been doing some serious thinking about us, and I think we at least need a break, I don't think he is taking it seriously.
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