MLR930 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 My guy and I were together for 4 months and then suddenly he tells me online that we need to talk next time we see each other. I'm a nervous wreck all that week and finally when we do have that talk everything seems fine then it takes a complete 180! I said "I love you to him" and I got no response back which is odd because he used to say it more than me so when I ask him if he still loves me he says "I love spending time with you, I love your company" and I'm left shocked and I said "but you don't love me? did you ever?" And he says "I thought I did" I felt like a million pound weight just fell right onto my chest. He once told me "don't ever doubt that I love you" and that I was the best thing that ever happened to me and now he doesn't know how he feels about me. I feel like a piece of garbage. He keeps telling me online how special I am to him and that he values me as a friend and blah blah blah. Until a few days ago we were talking online everynight like we used to but I told him that I just can't do that anymore but I'll still be his friend and talk to him but I can't like we used to because I feel like nothing has changed except there's no "i love yous" and we don't get together anymore and if he wants me to move on this isn't going to work. He said "it doesn't feel too good but I understand" With him I really thought my bad luck with men had changed but I guess not
nowhereman82 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 Don't accept the bull**** he is feeding you online. Block him. He feels guilty and that's him trying to make himself feel better. And it does nothing for you. Sorry to hear your loss. Brush the dirt off and hop back on.
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