frownyface42 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 so the tables feel like they have been turned... out of the last 6 years, i dated her for approx 2, but still had the relationship where we would hang out every week or so... so it kinda felt like we were still together. i think we were afraid to talk about getting back together because we both had hurt each other so badly in the past. basically she had been trying to get back together with me... i needed the space to come back to her but she never gave it to me, just a week or two and she would start calling again almost begging to hang out with me and this really pushed me away. she got a new job at a restaurant... met a kid and has been (i think) dating him. i talked to her about it and she said its nothing serious so i have been giving her space and had not really been buggin her that much... its been like 2-3 months with just an occasional text here and there. i told her i was happy for her... and never said i wanted to get back together but wanted to be friends if anything... it turns out she had been "not talking" to me, and i wasn't even aware this was happening until after a text i get "don't think its easy me not talking to you, but i think its for the best." so now i find out she has been talking to her friend about moving to NYC... coincidentally i was thinking about moving to CO... but wanted to wait and see if this girl and i could spark things back up. now i just want to call her, text her, or just get in contact with her just to know if this is really over, cause she has tried to convince me its over in the past and she always comes back. so its like i feel like there is someway to get her back... but don't know how to do it... usually i just don't talk to her and she starts calling, but this time she is the one not talking to me for some reason (maybe cause she is thinking about moving and is afraid she still has feelings for me??) the worst part is we have both now graduated and both back in our hometowns so we live right down the street from each other and her not talking to me is killing me... i'm not even sure i want to get backtogether with her, but the fact that she isn't talking to me makes me want to get her back. its like since we goth kinda wanna move... should we spend time together before its over, should i attempt getting back together (even though i don't know how i would do that) or should we let sleeping dogs lie?
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