carrie3107 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 Ok i broke NC. Just asked how he was and how work was going. (My texts are never when I am drunk) General chit chat. He said that he thought that i hated him, i just said dont hate you, and do think of you. He is really busy with work and travel going backwards and forwards to Leeds. (promotion so got a lot of stress on) We spoke on saturday, and said hope you dont mind the texts he said no dont mind just really busy, and let work calm down and we will see. When texting him i said ill text you Wednesday lunchtime. Just happy and am willing to except him as being a friend.. I have a new moto "Your born on this earth alone, you die alone its upto me how i want to mess it up"
roghornio Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 So long as you arnt deep down seeing it as a way back in, then on you go! Good luck.
Author carrie3107 Posted August 12, 2008 Author Posted August 12, 2008 I dont think so as it didnt work the first time then why would it work the second time, and i think he has the same thought. I know what i want which is to be loved, cared for, someone to make me feel happy and joke with. My ex never had time for this. So this is why im happy to be friends and be single,
sultry33 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 hi carrie, just remember your advice to me.. dont wait for the texts.. live your life:love: its a good and bad place to be tbh.. but we have to do what feels right for us.. for me breaking nc was the right thing to do.. dont know how it will end or start even but im glad i did it.. i do miss him
Author carrie3107 Posted August 12, 2008 Author Posted August 12, 2008 Hi hon how you been Yeah i remember the advice i gave u and yeah im listening to it. Not holding on waiting for his texts. What ever happens then it will be for the best x x
sultry33 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 Hi hon how you been Yeah i remember the advice i gave u and yeah im listening to it. Not holding on waiting for his texts. What ever happens then it will be for the best x x hi carrie, i been doing well thanks kids are off so bit more stressed but work is great atm.. really busy. weekends out with my mates.. seem to be on "heat" at moment as guys are coming on to me everywhere.. but enjoying being single.. not met up with him yet.. same thing i think really busy.. but its ok now as im busy too;) i think the month or so nc helped me get busy and not crave him as much.. like you im thinking whatever happens now will be for the best.. x
Author carrie3107 Posted August 12, 2008 Author Posted August 12, 2008 Nice one. Kids are great at stressing people out lol... Can I have, can i have etc I've decided that ill go down the friends route for about a month, then after that go nc for the final time.
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