Orionz Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 Is it a love phenomena? A sudden loss or fading of feelings towards your loved one without any apparent reason. He or she did nothing wrong. He or she was still passionate towards you, but you just feel nothing. How many of you have had your loved one giving you this reason to break up? Or have anyone of you experienced this? Is there any logical explaination for this at all?
Kman21 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 Yea this was the reason my ex broke up with me, she lost her feelings for me, this happened when she started going to college and started likeing this other guys, now mind you we were together for two years since high school. But I am telling you this the stuff she told me and the way she acted towards me, it was really hard to believe that her feelings just faded away. I mean she even talked about getting married and everything. But I guess man things change as people grow up we just have to cope with it, this is part of life. One day we will find someone that will love us truly. To this day I dont 100% understand how she lost feelings for me, we broke up 7 months ago and im still not completely over it, but im getting there.
Author Orionz Posted August 12, 2008 Author Posted August 12, 2008 Take care mate, i'm going through something similar too.
0hpenelope Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 Actually, I vaguely recall an LS user's signature that defines what faded feelings of love means to them. It's pretty witty. When I find the sig, I'll post here again.
Nikki Sahagin Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 In this case, all the cliches are true. Sometimes one person (it never seems to be both) just grow apart. Over time, we all naturally change. Especially with regard to very young relationships. Big changes can occur such as college, university, travel plans - HUGE obstacles for relationships to overcome especially as these experiences change us. If our partner goes off travelling the world why we stay at home, we don't know how much they are changing, growing, evolving, whilst we stay behind. Things like that tend to cause people to evaluate where they are going and what they want. Sometimes peoples feelings DO fade. Either you are moving onto the next level of the relationship and they are uncomfortable with that or they simply have changed and you no longer feature in their plans. It's amazing how even the deepest of bonds can be broken and quite sobering.
Author Orionz Posted August 15, 2008 Author Posted August 15, 2008 Could it be possible for the party who lost their feelings (the party who initated the break up) to not know the reason at all? I mean, they just lose that feeling of love just like that and they don't know whats happening within them either.
tobe1424 Posted August 15, 2008 Posted August 15, 2008 feelings do fade...but like everything else in this world there is reason for it...when the other person doesn't tell you exactly why, then they are either confused or just scared to tell you what they want...most of the time they are confused. Think about it. How can you be so good to someone and then they lose feelings even though you guys loved each other spoke about marriage w.e it is...there is always a reason. Hopefully like every good relationship there are more good things to evaluate from the person than bad things...overtime they will probably realize things...especially if your young...or maybe they will just move on. you never know. Its your goal to try and make things otherwise. Just dont be suprised if it doesn't. Be confident. Don't be ashame of anything and do things with care.. yes times change and everthing changed and people grow out of things. But a person that you've been there for a long time isn't easy to let go and you can always adapt...if you guys were happy one day and lost feelings the next is because there was something in the relationship that wasn't right... It could have been the smallest thing that just caught up...depending on the type of girl you can always have a talk with them...but everyone is different so you need to use different approaches...
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