Jay34 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 i am in a long distance relationship for nearly a year, she lives a plane ride away and we fell in love within 2 months and it was very strong for awhile, but now she is starting to act distant towards me, i have always been there for her and helped her with everything i could, she said i was the first one she could open up too, she was always nice and sweet and pretty much obsessed with me, in the last 2 months i was being a bit of a jerk acting like i didn't know if i was going to see her and we both didn't plan it well but anyway i had stopped saying all the nice little things about her and i wasn't doing much outside our phone calls, she tried extra hard by telling me how much she wanted to see me and i just said idk, i feel like though before those 10 months i was always the one doing things, then when i stopped she really tried, then after that she seemed to become distant, not calling much and whenever we talk about the future it doesn't seem like i am included in her plans, i love her to death, i have opened up to her more than anyone as has she. what can i do to rekindle what we had!
xpaperxcutx Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 Wow male egoism at work here. She didn't take you for granted. You were the one who took her for granted. You were acting like a jerk while she was doing her best to accommodate you.
LionLover Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 Wow male egoism at work here. She didn't take you for granted. You were the one who took her for granted. You were acting like a jerk while she was doing her best to accommodate you. Co-sign. Why were you so blasé towards her & what prompted you to treat her that way? It sounds like you were trying to punish her by not seeing her so you need to figure out what those reasons were & then talk to her about it.
Author Jay34 Posted August 12, 2008 Author Posted August 12, 2008 yes i understand i made mistakes, but even before i was doing 100%, she only started doing things when i stopped. now i am like on the **** list, she calls me when she is not with friends and is very distant, i have been there for her through everything, its not like i was a jerk the whole time, i don't know what to do ?, she seems to not be available and is treating me like a doormat, she thinks she can say she will call me in a little bit and call me at 2am
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