dreamy1945 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 and your MM? I feel so awful but I want to do something to tell the wife something mean but I can't think of anything. I want to do something but not let her know its me. Any ideas?
porter218 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 Has she done something to hurt you? I think what you could say to her depends on what she has done to you..or if she has done anything to you. Does she know about you? Now the MM on the otherhand deserves all of the wrath you can dish out.
LucreziaBorgia Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 Why be vindictive to the wife? No point in it really. It certainly isn't going to help your situation any. What would you say, and what do you hope to get out of it?
CHANTRESS Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 Dreamy telling the W is only going to be a temporary relief. She is not the enemy. The MM is the one who CHOOSES to cheat on his W...and he is the one CHOOSING to stay with his W. It's likely his W is completely unaware of his activities. While it may feel good initially to tell her....you will in fact be hurting a completely innocent party. If she knew it would not be called an AFFAIR. It would be called an "open relationship". I have been involved with a MM and understand how you feel. PM me if you need to. If you want to be vindictive or revengeful...forget the MM, cut him out of your life forever and live a GREAT life. That IS the best revenge.
Lizzie60 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 and your MM? I feel so awful but I want to do something to tell the wife something mean but I can't think of anything. I want to do something but not let her know its me. Any ideas? Why would you do that? Has she done something to you?
anotherother24 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 I don't know your story but I'm telling you from experience, if she has done nothing to you, other than keep her p.o.s. husband...don't do it. I've done it a few times over a year...and it doesn't help. I swear. I guess my thoughts were that if I make her "miserable" then she'll make him miserable...but it's stupid and completely unnecessary. You'll just feel guilty afterwards. If you plan to do it anyways though, I have no idea what you could do...one thing you could do is leave her with her cheating husband, i think that's about as mean as it gets...
porter218 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 ...one thing you could do is leave her with her cheating husband, i think that's about as mean as it gets... LOL. So true..that would be mean. Maybe a little to harsh.
anotherother24 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 LOL. So true..that would be mean. Maybe a little to harsh. Yeah really!
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