muse82 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 she responded on facebook i responded to my ex.. Then she wrote this back: Its a nice appartment i got so im looking forward to moving in. I started playing tennis and got a new job.how are your family? and the little one? is it Sofia?(talking about my niece) How is it going with you music? Hope your doing good, you desserve that. Your looking really hot:-)(i lost 60 pounds) Damn i feel like some weight have been lifted from my shoulders. I really feel good about her compliments.. What do you guys think?
nowhereman82 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 Take it as a friendly compliment and don't over analyze it. Just cause you grief haha You send a response yet?
saams Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 yes just think of it as a friendly compliment. you can hope for the best but dont expect anything, imo..
Hopelessly_Devoted Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 I agree with saams, do not red more into than what it says.
whichwayisup Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 She is just being nice. Don't read anything into it. See, this is why being friends or friendly with an ex is a bad idea because they say something and mean it ONE WAY - But usually what ends up happening is, the person (you in this situation) over think it and analyze it to death thinking what she said has hidden meanings or is hinting at something in particular. Bottomline, stop talking to your ex, you can't handle any friendship right now, let alone afew friendly exchanges that really mean nothing in the long run. Sorry..
BillClam Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 I agree with the others, it can suck though, getting over excited, but just take it as is. Honestly, I don't know how my ex can act the way she does on email, but she does, so what the hell. Good luck.
Author muse82 Posted August 16, 2008 Author Posted August 16, 2008 I wrote her back.. Saying she looks good as well and a lot of questions.. She replies with more questions and tells me she is going to a tennis tournament and she started working out. Its as if she wants me to know that she has changed. I wrote her that i were in her city some days ago and i thought it was a beautifull city, but she didnt mention that in her reply.I also wrote that i tought it was good communicating with her again. On facebook i see that she has her ex form 6 months ago on her friends list and her relationship status dont show. She continues to write that she is looking for another job and writes me funny stuff that we used to say to eachother and big hugs from me. I told her that i was moving over where she is( 20 miles) from her. She just replied that it was cool that i wanted to move and she hopes i will be able to find work. Do you have something planned or just takes it as it comes? she wants to know what i do with my time besides running and cykling.she complimented me on how much weight i had lost(60 pounds) and i should be proud of myself. What does she want? ego boost? tell me that she is fine without me? wanna show me her new boyfriend? Last night we both were on facebook for 3 hours but she hadnt replied when she went offline. I really could need some encouragement and advice. Stupid and contrary to what you guys suggested in here i went and replied her anyway. im so weak! i keep analyzing stuff and it drives me insane. but thats what you guys said..stupid me..why cant i just forget her and move on to another woman.perhaps its because i have a hard time finding girls and love that i keep hanging on to what used to be. I dont understand it, im a pretty handsome guy and sporty/athletic and i play the guitar and sing but i just cant seem to get the attention from girls.. Im so jelaous at other guys walking around with their girls and it makes me think about what used to be.sometimes it feels a though my life is over at 26 years of age.Also it kinda bugs me that my ex has got this new exiting life with friends(she didnt have any when we ere together)job,working out etc. am i just being used by girls when they are going through tough times?
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