LadyP1986 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 I have been in a relationship since I was 15 years old and now I am 22. We got married when i was 19 but it doesn't seem like he's going anywhere in life. I have another 20 months until I graduate to become a RN I just moved into my new apartment and I work part time but on they other hand he cant keep a job, he lies, cheats, verbally abuses me, but stop physically abusing about two years ago. People tell me all the time that I am too attractive and smart to be with such a loser.I don't really think looks matter since he not a very attractive man but he still manages to cheat on me which I do not understand.He is 27 years old, unemployed, and most of his day consist of smoking marijuana. When I was in high school it was "cool" to be with a guy like him..."the tough guy" but thats not what i want, i stopped wanting that when we married. Recently he cheated on me again with a 16 year old so i kicked him out of my apartment even though he swear that he did not have sex with her. I am just so exhausted with his bull and i feel like im they only one making any progress in the relationship....But yet I sit here lonely and sad ignoring his phone calls....Do I need to get into another relationship in order to forget about him????....I sit in this house all day by myself it will only take a matter of time before i give in again and pick up the phone:....What should I do???
TrustInYourself Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 Do you enjoy torment? Don't pick up the phone. Forget him and he'll forget you.
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