Jono Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 So I broke up with my girl, been together for almost a year. She told me she had feelings for someone else, a week later she ends up going out with him. I feel gutted, empty. Can't get her out of my mind, it's like torture. I genuinley loved this girl and she moves on so quickly. Im a mess, not sleeping or eating properly, can't pay attention at work. What kills me is I know she's happy with this new guy. Im miserable and though I know she feels a bit guilty, overall she's happy with her desicion. I feel like discarded clothes. To be honest, she was pretty young (22) and kind of immature, so I should have expected little else... Thing is all the logical reasons I should be glad she's out of my life mean nothing cuz I feel like %#@# every day. How do I resist the urge to talk to her? Resist the urge to try to inflict some of my hurt on her?
Lovelybird Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 How do I resist the urge to talk to her? Resist the urge to try to inflict some of my hurt on her? Hi, if she likes someone else, what use you talk to her? increase some more pain? she is 22 y/o, probably won't understand how you feel or don't have that ability to comfort you. It will do more good to pamper yourself for a while. If you love to travel, then go to travel; if you love to learn to play guitar, then begin to learn; if you love to eat a luxury meal in a fancy restaurant, then go to do it. shift your focus For a while you will feel better.
Author Jono Posted August 11, 2008 Author Posted August 11, 2008 Yeah, you're right, there's no point in talking to her and Im trying not to. Im just used to having her around. Im actually training to get my pilot's licence, so that'll give me something to do. It's just those times when Im on my own, coming home to an empty house, you know? Im used to living with a partner, it's weird to be on my own. And every morning I wake up thinking about her. It drives me crazy.
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