celinedion1 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 For some reason lately ive been nervous about people finding out that i post on this website. Is anyone else nervous about people finding out about this website? How likely is it that your ex loves actually know about this website?
kizik Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 Nope. Exes don't troll the Net on support boards. Just think about it for a sec, CD.
ellen24 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 Pretty unlikely that they would be on this. however, i did see one post from a guy and then a very simialr post from a girl. somthing about a hug in church that created tension for both of them.... seemed like it was the same couple
WiseOne1 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 OMG NC would be in vain. Lol Imagine if our exs did find about this site. NC would be spoiled because they would know that your doing it. And they would really have us on there leash. But it can happen, if someone were to let the ex lose there computer and the ex was to go swopping around. There Ya Go.
xchaotic_beautyx Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 I would be glad if they found this site and saw my posts. Then maybe they could get a tiny idea of the pain they put me through.
Trialbyfire Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 I'm not the least bit worried. I know for fact that one of my exes reads this site and 100% knows who I am. Edit - I also highly suspect that another one of my exes has found me here too, from comments made.
babes23 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 No i'm not worried. My ex doesn't use the internet too much and i know he wouldn't come onto an advice forum.
SweetTux Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 I was afraid for a while that my ex might find me on this because I did not think about it when I made my sn... but i use the same sn for like everything lol.. But the only way she would find it is if she googled my sn or something... But I highly doubt she would. Shes the one that doesn't want me in her life so why would she go lookin around for me right? Thats how I see it. So don't worry too much.
ioncebelieved Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 If you DO NOT THINK it can happen, you are wrong!!! I posted on an all man's forum and my ex from 15 years ago googled my email address and found posts from said site. If you don't believe it can happen YOU ARE WRONG. Especially if they know your email address you used registering on this site!! Her and I are friends and I have not seen her in years and do not want her back in any way shape or form.
SweetTux Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 If you DO NOT THINK it can happen, you are wrong!!! I posted on an all man's forum and my ex from 15 years ago googled my email address and found posts from said site. If you don't believe it can happen YOU ARE WRONG. Especially if they know your email address you used registering on this site!! Her and I are friends and I have not seen her in years and do not want her back in any way shape or form. I guess you are right... but why would they want to? I don't understand... You broke up with someone and don't want them in ur life ur not even friends with them but why would u even google them at all? I'm sure our ex's have been in plenty of other relationships and wouldn't even care if we were still around at all... I dunno maybe I'm just hurt and bitter and don't believe I cross my ex's mind at all...
Ingenue Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 I'm not too worried whether my ex reads these posts or not. It isn't as if I've divulged any identifying information about him, his location or even my own identity. If he does recognise my writing style or the scenarios I'm describing about our past relationship, then so be it. I'm not posting on LS out of consideration to him. I'm posting here because I want to and because I want to share my stories and experiences and seek support when I require it. If he happens to wander to LS and doesn't like what he's reading, then he's welcome to join and post his own perspectives.
blackberry23 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 lol well he kinda sorta brought up this website one time in a convo.. not that he posted but that he was reading it...and i posted on it probably months later and he found it...dk how he knew it was me but whatever.. pretty embarrasing
lovestruck818 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 I always clear my history trail and cookies before my boyfriend comes over...not b/c I am looking at anything bad, but he would be asking a ton of questions if he knew I posted here. Frankly, what I look at is none of his business...nor his, mine.
Arise_Serpentor Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 this site is getting more and more popular! Plus i know for a fact where some people work the network people keep track of who visits what and who posts what! I'm trying to find out if my place does it! Also, some LS posts come up through google, so you if you leave some specifics about your life or your ex's, more chance they will stumble across you!
porter218 Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 That would be funny in my case..Like the ex I posted about saying he was a huge disappointment in bed.LOL . He would be crushed.
0hpenelope Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 If you DO NOT THINK it can happen, you are wrong!!! I posted on an all man's forum and my ex from 15 years ago googled my email address and found posts from said site. If you don't believe it can happen YOU ARE WRONG. Especially if they know your email address you used registering on this site!! Her and I are friends and I have not seen her in years and do not want her back in any way shape or form. Oh that's an interesting story. Why would she put a search for your e-mail address on Google in the first place? Sheesh... Love never dies - it's like a possum: it "plays" dead. Eh, if Lawrence found this site perhaps I should give a customized message for him. I'm almost at 500 posts, so I guess I should wish him luck in reading all that. Heck, I wouldn't. :cough: Here we go! Hi Lawrence! You found me! This is where I found the strength and courage to go NC for good! There are a lot of people here who helped me move on, but you know... I think you should present your perspective. In the mean time, why don't you enjoy complimentary peanuts and water from LoveShack. Oh, right. There aren't any for dumpers who doesn't know what breaking up means. Come to think of it, there weren't any available for us, too... Would you like to take on the majority of the people who advocate NC on this board because they were the people who showed me the NC light? Yeah, I'd like to see you try. Good luck! I hope you don't offend anyone who might be sophisticated enough to send a virus your way. There we go. I'm sorry for the slight threadjack, OP. Everyone else carry on!
ioncebelieved Posted August 11, 2008 Posted August 11, 2008 Yeah NO KIDDING!!! Before I knew what she had done she was telling me things about certain things that I had stated in that forum and I was a little aggravated about it. From now on, I use a different email address than the ones I am registered with on this and other forums.
changchewsoon Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 why should we care whether they read our posts or not
CaliGuy Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 What do I care if an ex reads my posts?! If she did, it perhaps means she can finally understand what I am going through and relate -- because she'd be experiencing it for herself first hand now. Karma is a b*tch, lol.
Mending1985 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 I'm so glad my ex doesn't use sites like this - he doesn't even use MSN or facebook :-) But if he did stumble across this and manage to recognise me via my posts, good luck to him. He knows it all anyway thanks to hundreds of teary phone calls lol
mark982 Posted August 12, 2008 Posted August 12, 2008 what's my ex going to say? well yea i was a ho.yes i cheated twice. i mean really, what can she say?
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